Are all Gemini guys man-children? They’re so exhausting! One minute they’re there in your life, inviting you out to parties and cuddling up… the next, after making time to help you with something they immediately run away from any kind of “friendship” commitment… This last one isn’t the first, though there haven’t been that many in my life, true. I’ve decided to say screw this guy, let him do whatever he wants… If I hear from him again, I’d be surprised honestly. He can’t make any kind of plan whatsoever, even if you suggest something to him a day or two before you have to throw it at him 2 hours before it starts the day of, so he can feel like he gets to jump off to freedom or whatever. But then you say, “Thanks for helping me out, it means a lot” it turns into “I already have a sister; I don’t need another one.” I’m sorry, what? I was just saying thanks for being awesome. As far as the man-children bit goes (sorry to deviate), the ones I’ve known, even if they’re doing something responsible and following their dreams and passions, etc, they all dream of running back to something they used to do involving either clubbing or dicking around. This is definitely a problem for some with Aries in their chart, but more pronounced in Gemini.
HELP! How do I deal with this?
My Dear Confused,
Seriously – Gemini Men, to me, are up there with the Large Hadron Particle Collider in terms of pomp, expense (psychic) and general batshit insanity. YES if the thing gets turned on right and recomposes the universe or brings on time travel or something, it will be great. I think. But in the meantime…seriously?
Although, having said that, may i suggest you date an Aquarius to truly have your senses warped? So, okay. You don’t sound like this has turned you into a Love Zombie – yet – so that’s excellent. You also don’t say what sign YOU are, which would help. So how is the ‘screw this guy, let him do whatever he wants’ etc etc plan working out? It’s brilliant in that you get to retain your dignity, mystery and sanity.
Can i also say that the “i already have a sister” line when you were just being polite/nice seems a bit douchie.
Balance: Gemini Guys have sexy darting Mercurial eyes, they tell excellent anecdotes & are excellent at foreplay.
In some cases foreplay or phone sex IS all there is but never mind that. Once i got a really sad email from a girl who was fending off Love Zombie-hood after an ill fated dalliance with a GG and she wrote that he was but “a figment, a whisper and a promise, in the end like an alien sweet scent on the evening breeze.”
They often say/act like they don’t want to be pinned down (like a poor little butterfly, gassed in a jar and stuck up on some wall) but then wind up in a domestic gulag, their every move more or less monitored and scrutinized for signs of insubordination. Weird that.
What does everyone else think? Thoughts from Gemini Guys welcome…
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