Astro Query: Prince Charming Or Lone Warrior?
Dear Mystic,
I am a Virgo with a love dilemma – NOT a Love Zombie one. Should I run off with Prince Charming or remain a Lone Warrior? At the beginning of 2012 I broke up with by my partner of 5 years (Cap) for the simple reason that “He didn’t know what he wanted”–brilliant, it only took him 5 years to work that out. Slow decision making there Mr Cap.
I’m Virgo, Sagg moon, Pisces rising.
In August I met a Gemini, Leo Moon, Mars in Sagg and what I would bet is Kataka rising (it’s in the eyes and the clingy-ness). I fell for him HARD. Likewise, him for me. I’m 27, he’s 43. I was MADLY in love, but something wasn’t right (aside from the age gap) and I couldn’t put my finger on it. So I broke it off with him, but in a dodgy “I’ll call you when I’m ready for a relationship” way. That didn’t feel right either.
So after about a week, I called him up, high on…let’s just call it Space Dust and we reunited, declaring our undying love for each other. Very emo. Very intense. Then I impulsively introduced him to my parents the next day. After he had left they were like “Are you SURE about this?” and I realized I wasn’t. Something wasn’t right. What if he wasn’t the one? What if I was on the “rebound”? I thought hard, and remembered the advice in my Get Scorped consult. “It’s like a racehorse or a ferrari…very powerful, but you don’t want it fanging off in the wrong direction.”
Was this the right direction? I wasn’t sure. I felt like this was the first person I’d met post-breakup and maybe my judgement was clouded. I felt like I needed to give myself the chance to meet other people and broaden my horizons. So I broke it off again (a clean break, just friends) that same day. I felt really guilty for hurting him, but it felt like something I needed to do urgently.
Now my heart is heavy, but I feel I have done the right thing. I am going to avoid alcohol, drugs and random sex and try and keep a clear head. Thank you for your site and all your brilliant astro work, it makes such a difference to my life.
But to be honest, this dude had all the trappings of “Prince Charming”…house, motorbike, cool 50s car, wit, charm…and a terrifying clingyness. Did I also mention he had a giant collection of tiny toy cars and only ever had cartoon character doona covers (e.g.?Thomas the Tank Engine, Toy Story, Spongebob etc). There were some strange quirks and mannerisms which didn’t add up. There was something weird there I couldn’t put my finger on.
He’s still pestering me, saying that we should “meet up” and “talk about this”. Ermagerd. I guess he’s hoping I will get high/drunk again and fall into his arms?
Please help…the Lone Warrior Virgo.
Dear Lone Warrior Virgo,
I am sure the peeps here will have a variety of fascinating opinions on this but my thoughts are…
* Shame about the Cap in slo-mo but yes, they can move at glacier speed in relationship matters. Faster if there is a hot dollar or two involved lol.
* You’re SO mutable – so am I, I get it – but that sort of “come over, i need you, i want you” followed by a swift rethink the very next day IS what gives the Mutable signs (Pisces, Virgo, Saggo, Gemini) a bit of a bad name amongst others. We think ‘fluid’ – they think “flake.” He MAY be a bit confused.
* I don’t think the age gap matters so much as dude has CARTOON CHARACTER DOONA covers and the tiny toy car collection. So what were the “strange quirks”? I mean a pinball machine is very Leo Moon/Mars in Sagg/Gemini but i think he has taken it a bit far. If you slept with him (it’s unclear) what was it like waking up in chez kindie room?
* Pisces Rising = Neptune influence: obey your instincts. If they are (as they seem) to go all Temperance on this for a bit, do it. Maybe wait till the next New Moon in Saggo – December 12/13 and then re-assess the terrain.
* Also, no offence but he is behaving like a bit of a drip. If he really had Crab Rising he’d just go to the gym and make goo-goo eyes at the next Mrs Thomas The Tank Engine, right? Saying “we have to talk blah blah blah” to someone who has just politely dumped you is super Love Zombie.
What does everyone else think?
You have me wigged out at “terrifying clinginess”. Also the toy car collection. I met a Taurean with an immaculately restored 50′s vehicle with model train collection in glass cabinet and fabulous kitchen, left admiring but freaked. Aqua Sun.
Apropos of not much – Jo Hockey has a cartoon doona. Seems normal, but probably has yellow chicken feet slippers.
she means she was terrified by his shows of affection. the term ” terrifying clinginess” in this context is ENTIRELY subjective. Prob says more about her not-readiness than his style.
Please don’t demonise this man.
I don’t know. Terrifying clinginess doesn’t sound like a simple over enthused show of affection to me, having been at the receiving end of terrifying clinginess I found it….terrifying.
Mind you, I find couples who go to the laundromat together terrifying. The few times I was forced to do this whilst cohabiting in my youth I needed a stuff drink to get over the implied domisticity…. Thankfully I am a big girl now ad own my own washing machine.
But terrifying clinginess is not a nice thing to be subject to at all at all
Stiff, not stuff, although stuff would suffice
Both of the first two comments as anonomyous were me (damn the iphone), but all the other anonymouses are not
Hi anon. I hear you. I had a stalker once so I know that unwanted attention can be terrifying.
Then in the next relationship I had after that, with a lovely bloke, in the very early days I remember feeling genuine panic when he put his arms around me in bed really tightly, as he slept. As time went on I was more open to affection and less alert to signs of trouble. And it was a beautiful long relationship.
But what I’m saying is: Just because you’re terrified, doesn’t mean the other person is abnormal. It’s your issue. Except in extreme cases like the stalker or what happened in your case, anon.
I mean, just because this guy is not right for Lone Virgo Gal, does not mean he is dangerous or bad. It just means she doesn’t want him and is not compatible with him.
He’s done nothing wrong other than not be “the one”.
Well said.
I think I was probably demonising Jo Hockey.
My Aqua Sun does wig out at clinginess unfortunately, but that could be just me and 28 years of enmeshed relationship.
Gotta love a free-spirited aqau sun
you seemed to feel something wasn’t right all the way through that post, so I’d go with the something isn’t right gut instinct.
Nothing wrong with boys having a few toys. Being in touch with your inner child a bit is good so long as you still do all the adult things properly.
No it is not LZ of him to want to talk about things, he’s probably still remembering how amazing it was when you came over and declared undying love. A sudden about-face the next day bears talking about so he can work out WTF.
Continuing to contact someone AFTER they have made it clear that you are breaking things off is a big RED flag. WTF yourself. are you him?
I agree. And don’t think being friends will be possible either – emotions are high all around, and he also doesn’t want things to be over.
I agree. She has given mixed messages to put it mildly, and he may even be slightly concerned for her.
I don’t know.. the toy car/train thing kinda creeps me out and gives me weird pedo vibes (completely no support or evidence for this mind you). It’s like a grown woman playing with barbies or my little ponies.
Especially since the Lone Warrior and the Gemini dude have that huge age gap the childhood things seem even stranger??
The pedo accusations are a bit much. As Gemstar said, as long as someone has their adult stuff together, who cares if someone collects toys. Maybe it’s something they were passionate about as a kid and they still retain that. Then again, maybe it’s me being a Leo, and we tend to be rather in touch with our semi-permanent inner child, haha.
But also, she’s 27, not 7. Or 17 for that matter. If someone is actually displaying signs of pedophilia, by all means bring it up. It’s only a 16 year gap if you do the math; not so old that he could be her father, you know?
That’s why I said that it was merely a creepy feeling, and that I have nothing at all to back it up with. Sorry to cause offence, definitely wasn’t my intention.
“There were some strange quirks and mannerisms which didn’t add up. There was something weird there I couldn’t put my finger on.”
I would listen to that gut instinct LVW. If it something that bothers you now, you can be sure it would probably amass into something much worse in the long run.
Best of Luck darling x
Exactly, listen to that inner doubt – for me if i met a 43 y old (or 33 y old for that matter) with a penchant for SpongeBob and Thomas the Tank engine etc I’d wake in fright and run 10 miles. If I had children (which I do) I’d be thinking about the big P – hello collection of minny cars … Totes dodgy, trust your gut and run away, change your locks, dye yr hair; ok, ok, going a bit far but a big NO is my advice. xx
Hadn’t thought of that but yes, it all falls into place. She said there was something not quite right about him. Run Lone Warrior Virgo, run! He’s probably a rebound thing anyway.
Outta there fast girl! Well done. He sounds like a cocaine dealer I once accidentally went out with. Te same wit, charm, money and car collection and the same ‘I can’t quite put my finger on it but something’s really wrong here’ twist.
Don’t look back. Who cares if us highly mutables look flakey to others (I know I did to my glacial-speed ex-Capricorn, who just like yours, took years to work out we weren’t right for each other and has spent the intervening 3 years regretting the speed with which he made the decision.)
So what if there aren’t plenty more fish in the sea, or there are but they’re gay. Mieux vaut être seule que mal accompagnee…it’s better to be alone than with diqueheads. It’s true.
Almost same timeframe for me and my ex-Cap.
I put the last few years down to the early days of Pluto and the indecision it thrusts upon you whilst it propels you forward into the unknown. Mine was trying to stay anchored in it I suspect and unlike mutables couldn’t just dive in and swim it as easily.
Saggi has moved on
This Gem has moved on too. Saw him recently. But I know who lost the most now and it certainly wasn’t me. And he knew it. Slow burn bad luck my good sir.
Make a call, live by your decision and move on or …
Make a call, regret your decision and stay sorta stuck.
I take option 1
Yep, very wise, it’s the famous ‘I can’t quite put my finger on it’ that saw me run for the hills just in the nick of time. I thank my lucky mutable venus!!!
Hi Seabird and Scorched Earth, and anyone who knows:
I have a question about Caps.
Does the same apply to female friends? Are they likely to work out they don’t want to be friends after three years? Or is it only in love?
I don’t know that it’s that simple… with friendships or relationships Gemstar, but here goes
Caps can be slow to decide to commit (moon in Cap incidentally) but until the Pluto move it really didn’t start to shake down that way. It was like he just had to go/do/be/see etc. And I get that having had that transit.
I have a Cap long time friend that I haven’t seen much over the last couple of years but that’s due to both of us. We’re still friends. She is exploring lots of new things and actually getting off the fence on some things and deciding to go after them so that’s all good.
Maybe it’s just a change in the the friendship rather than an ending? Friendships have more scope to morph and adapt into something new compared to relationships.
I think the bigger/slower transits have quite significant impacts in shaping character and direction.Pluto will be in Cap for quite some time to come.
Hmm, would like to loosen up the comparison btwn rels and friends in 2nd last paragraph. Hours later (wrote that early AM) I don’t find it valid at all….
mutable much?!?
I’m going to try to offer some input without coming off as being critical to our lovely Caps..the motto of Cappo is “I Use”. This doesn’t necessarily mean they’re users, just to clarify any wayward implications.
But it’s to say they view anything they invest their time in from a practical standpoint to what makes sense to what they’re trying to accomplish at that time. Yes, sometimes this feels cold and impersonal, which doesn’t mean there isn’t a wealth of loyalty or feeling there but just that dear Cap is “focusing” on what’s relevant to them.
Also, with Cap relationships you have to think extremely long term, these are not people who give up even when for all intents and purposes they seem absent and preoccupied. Sometimes they feel they can only be there for you if indeed they have something practical or relevant to give, but they don’t have the same sense of service Virgo does. At least, this is my experience.
Having said that, there are instances when the low versions of the sign can come off as only there when it’s convenient to them – but that can apply to anyone of any sign who’s generally selfish. I do tend to think that once they trust you, they’re in the relationship and very much subscribe to not fixing what’s not broken/no news is good news.
Above all else, always go with your instincts…. and several times you mention that something wasn’t right.
But…. I’m curious about a couple of things.
You broke up with Mr Cap after 5 years because he didn’t know what he wanted.
What do YOU want?
Was it just too soon for Mr Cap to be on the same page or were you starting to follow opposite paths?
Your Peter Pan Man (I am sorry to say because we all hate hearing this) has most all the hallmarks of a rebound; *sigh* dizzyingly deep, fast love / lashings of imbibed substances / confusion about the missing puzzle piece / enormous anaesthetic value… until you find yourself in conundrum number 2 so shortly after a Big Break Up. They suck in all manner of glorious and shitful ways these rebound affairs.
I am a huge believer in Time To Oneself after a break up (once Rebound Man has bounced out of the picture and ok yes, the odd one night stand or two, just to ensure one’s mojo has not been permanently depleted or damaged). That for me is the point of retreat…. to make sense of what happened, learn lessons lest the experience be re-run and to return to myself again after the heartbreak warfare (thank you JM) that is the end of something that was long.
Big cuddles to you Virgo Valkyrie… and good wine, great books, close friends & beautiful gardens / beaches / rivers. These are what truly get you through xx
Yes, always trust your intuition/instincts.
That is all.
Intuition does not always roll out the red carpet for us to view and understand why we should run and not walk from a situation! If something really gets under my skin to make it crawl, I’m at an age where I’m just plain ” outta there ” no questions asked!
You’re right, it doesn’t. Intuition sits quietly inside and invites one to listen and pay attention… or not.
There’s a choice.
It’s there and accessible if one can learn to interpret their unique style of communicating inner wisdom and have the discernment to sift through ego or old beliefs and fears masquerading as intuition as well.
Instinct is a more accute version of primal intution.. fight/flight.. survival, I need to get out of here now. And of course that’s appropriate too.
In your ever-wise way, you put words to my oldest fear:
“ego or old beliefs and fears masquerading as intuition”
And there you have it: many a time i’ve stayed till the ripening of a situation because of quashing my feeling about its true nature. That fear of being wrong, and not seeing a tough time through to the best of my ability, plus of course hope, that it IS just a tough time not total decay.
Still, i guess when you see something through to its last, there is no chance of backpedalling into La Zomba territory with an old flame.
Or i’m just a typical Mutable / Venus-Uranus type
If only it were as simple as it can be writ Mille.
I think it’s hard for any of us to see that clearly during the thick of anything. Even if we do to then trust it over what might be perceived as a significant risk/loss/cost makes it that much harder to trust what we’re receiving let alone then act on it.
I think it’s also about embracing our humaness and learning as we go.
Sometimes I wonder if we’re meant to loose the ‘sight’ so to speak to have the experience? I have pondered that often and still have no answer.
I hear you though, I’ve done that myself.
x
Dear Aqua Fey
You are really smart.
Great advice!
This post distracted me from a TV program in which Chloe Sevigny was revealed to have a dick.
Clingy….errk! Cancer, likewise. Drop it and go for someone stronger and more independent and, ER, grown up.
maybe he feels off because he may on the outside surface appear to have everything one would seem to want, but actually has deeper issues within himself not yet solved (or cannot be solved). the clingyness definitely sounds like unresolved issues … though eeeesh, every cancer i’ve ever met scares me to death with their emo neediness.
Being aware if the person is kind is good. If they realise that if you are not happy the relationship won’t work is an adult quality.
Having cartoon sheets… meh. I am surrounded by Aspies & autism at the moment. That kind of quirkiness no longer phases me.
The good part about being mutable is that you can change your mind again on all of this!
Trust your instincts.
. . . and ewwww. Cartoon sheets, naff collections, etc. No, just no. Also, chasing someone 16 years his junior? Big issues. Just one of those things would have my spider senses tingling, but in combo he sounds like a red hot mess.
Only not hot.
Listen to your gut, don’t feel guilty for walking away. Emo neediness masks unhealthy mother issues!!!
Ok so you’ve already got some really solid advice here but my two cents worth …. Not even going to touch the cartoon character doona (shudder). I’m Pisces rising too, trust those instincts without fail. The big one for me though is not the age difference but the fact that he is about to Saturn return in the middle of the zap zone ?!? Do you want to go there? I can’t help but see my own story reflected here with my very gorgeous very soulmatey v much younger man of a year ago. It was amazing but our relationship was very catalytic for him and very draining and consuming for me …. In hindsight there was a super lesson for me in what doesn’t feel right isn’t right …. I don’t have to justify or explain …
Good luck though with however it unfolds . X
Isn’t saturn return when you are 29-30? Isn’t she about to have her Saturn return in a couple of years not the 43yr old male?
I’m with Mystic on the cartoon sheets/doona – how did he explain it?
Plus, wouldn’t the sheets be like polyester cotton? And low thread count? I would need to apply a barrier cream before getting in that bed.
Love it!
I am so not qualified to give any relationship advice, but I do know Cap men, and ‘glacial pace’ is imbuing them with an indecent level of haste when it comes to their decision-making about relationships.
He’ll probably call you in ten years thinking it’s now his turn to speak.
lol!
Is there an Australian-to-American translation for “doona”?
I’m a pisces with virgo rising, and just echoing Mystic’s thing about being super-Mutable — I totally understand how it is with feeling unable to make a firm decision. That said, I think you’ve actually already made up your mind. Have you ever tried the coin-flip trick? Get a coin and say to yourself, if I flip heads I will go back and talk to Mr. Cartoons. Then you flip the coin, and while the coin is in the air you’ll find yourself secretly willing the coin to land on tails. That’s your gut talking, and it will almost always give you the right answer if you can turn your mind off long enough to hear it.
Doona = Quilt, bedcover
duvet
Piscean with Neptune 12th trine Mercury 5th says:
i sleep under feathers
They will say ‘duvet’ but most Americans it seems have quilts instead of doonas.
Good advice re gut instincts by the way.
Hello darling, don’t blame the mutables too much. I’m a Scorp with Scorp Ascendant (Gemini Moon) and I’m terribly hot-cold, too. So no worries and no bad feelings. If the main feeling is it doesn’t feel right don’t let the clingy guy guilt you, either! Also, you’re young… less cartooney guys might be charming and just wait for you in a few week’s time. Good luck!
Same here hot/cold. When you get the shivvers around someone its always for good reason and you should run. When they guilt you, put up more sheilds because they know what theyre doing to mess with your mind. (stay/go hints are located in the bedroom suite).
I don’t get the question…where’s Prince Charming in all this?
i was wondering that too?
i would go with your first instinct. it is usually right.
But if it were me id have hired a P.I. to do a background search but you probably have better luck than i do!
He sounds well off, maybe even wealthy. So perhaps there is wining and dining?
Excellent question! and I’m guessing he’s got a teddy bear he cuddles.
Keep right on running honey…….
Gut, gut, gut go with your gut. I think it was Nabokov who said ‘my heart was a hysterical unreliable organ’ but your gut is never wrong.
Too right!
agreed. great advice
Some quick observations as I’m about to start work. Sorry if this comes across as being short.
You don’t mention much about what you like about him besides his possessions and his charm. The latter is a big negative if it’s not balance by more substantial qualities.
The sheets – he’s a child
Ringing him in a point of neediness on hoochie – hurtful and unfair on him. He’s ringing you more because of you’re on-off moves rather than anything substantial
Relax and trust your instincts. They sound good on this one.
Yes, he’s a child – that might be why he’s trying to date one! (big age gap) can’t see a woman his own age going along with this. seems like a bit of a potential sugar daddy situation.
trust the instincts and run! this doesn’t seem at all like a ‘the one’ scenario…
I had a similar situation a long time ago but we were only 5 years apart. Except I looked 15 when I was 23 still. I later found out he thought i was still in high school and was pursuing me. Hindsight 20/20. Red flag!
He didn’t have cartoon doona but had childlike obsession with vampires (severe obsession and extremely unhealthy) I had no idea how serious it was until too late.
I thought he was “Prince Charming” would meet me at work with roses, poetry, gifts.
He later turned out to be into underage teens. Got a runaway pregnant and had the cops called to my house looking for him.
He turned out to be a nightmare stalker. I wish I never gave him the time of day. Follow your gut instincts, I wish I had.
He has married several girls from foreign countries for green cards and each one younger than the last. He is in his late 40′s now and latest is in her 20′s. I feel really sorry for these girls who just want a green card to the US and have no idea what a freak he truly is.
It’s definitely a red flag. Had a BF who had stuffed toys. He also had a teen porn collection and was obsessed with dirty sex. I ran but should have run sooner. Now, if I ever saw anything childish in the possession of a man I’d exit immediately with no return. I don’t believe there are any exceptions to this rule. And any man that describes in detail and then asks you to replicate the sexual activities of former lovers is just disgusting.
You did good kiddo, outta there super fast. Major alarm bells re the doona designs and being clingy is sooooooooooo last year’s astro. Chalk it up to experience and re-launch yourself in the NY.
Thankyou for all your advice peeps, it is very wise (and often funny)! Especially AquaFey’s.
Re: the “strange quirks”….these included randomly talking like a 2-year old for no apparent reason and the telling of….well….rather intimate details of his past lovers’ bedroom antics….which he seemed convinced he could get me to perform. Which made me think—how long is it before MY bedroom antics get discussed with a third party???
Re: waking up in chez kindie room—it was really strange. Mr Potatohead is not a turn-on for me.
OMG, that settles it, your instincts are on the button. Good call on the straight n’ sober bit too, at least for a while.
I only have one teeny bit of advice:
RUN!
Best of luck xo
I am totally with baristagem… sounds like a boy/man thats never grown up… all intensity but is there sustainable depth
…
Go Warrior and meet the one that doesnt make you feel like something isnt right.. thats a dead giveaway right there!!
40 years clingyness and toys !!! He’ll only hold you back and keep you down hun, move away. Unsophisticated to the max.
Virgo Lone Warrior,
Does Prince Charming know you are just out of a 5 year relationship? And what does “go run off with Price Charming” mean? Like get married? I think it’s way too early for you to be falling head over heels in love with someone you met in August after a 5 year relationship with Mr. Slow & No Go Capricorn. Are you sure you aren’t just craving a little excitement? Do you think you’re feeling uncomfortable because with him being older and stable and as you said ” this dude had all the trappings of “Prince Charming…house, motorbike, cool 50s car, wit, charm…” you expected eventually he would be the adult and put the brakes on your whirlwind romance and ground himself? It sounds like emotionally he responded to you like a teenager in puppy love which is flattering (esp. after Mr. Slow) but also terrifying. Maybe your Virgoness needs Slow but not that slow. Just realistic you know?
Dear LVW,
One, yes obey thine instincts and intuition regardless of lack of explanation. This is an exercise in self-trust. Great to see you’re listening.
Two, he’s still pestering you. Of course he is. Clearly he’s a man (despite the juvenile tastes) who knows how to get what he needs/wants or how else would he have amassed his treasures.
Three, your youth is flattering to him and I feel (here’s my intuition at work) that your appeal to him is that you bring some sense of calmness by allowing (or appearing to as a mutable) while satisfying his idea of whom he could best relate to. In short, you’re a bit of an old soul in a young hot body and it all just works in his mind.
Four, I totes second MM on the Crab Rising technique. Despite our disgusting rep for being soggy cling warts who marathon pine, Cancers (I’m one) are actually a practical enough lot to understand that ain’t pretty. We’d rather lure you via comfort, being canny, tres intimate sex that makes you feel over the moon yet finally home all at the same time, and the appeal of sensible financial planning. I dated/married Cancers & Cancer Risings – not one of them ever clung. They did however employ some semblance of the aforementioned techniques – including being super empaths so as to appear precisely at the times I ever needed/thought of them. I naturally, have done the same.
Five, the right direction isn’t out there, it’s in you. And you know this already, and you called it by cutting down on influences that murk up your antennae. Whether dude is rebound or not, you should be utterly enjoying your time with him non? Not angsting about how to psychologically make sense of cartoon doona covers and the kinder vibe.
There are definitely other fish/crabs in the sea.
Run & don’t try to justify it.
agree on all the early comments.
1) terrifying clinginess = ick ick ick.
2) cartoon character doona cover = likewise.
But most importantly – Listen to your vibes and most importantly what your body (apart from the hormones) is telling you. Wherever I have gone into a relationship that is bad – all the signs are there from day 1 screaming me in the face. So just give your signs and vibes some room to hear them.
My experience of clingy men would have me running a mile, but particularly look for these signs which might go with it:
1) Manipulativeness (does he manipulate you into situations or do emotional blackmail, eg. I love you so much and it hurts me so much when you treat me like this) or especially – blackmailing you if you do want some space…”but it’s normal for girlfriends and boyfriends to spend all their time together”. Is there some hint that he would like to take over your life?
2) Check out his friends / relationships – does he have stable, sane seeming friends, or are the doona covers and toy cars trying to fill some kind of void?
3) Game playing. Sudden changes of mood, or blowing from hot to cold.
I hear in your email that you are concerned, and this is your life, and bad relationships can last a long time (particularly with clingy+++ people who are hard to get rid of) so I do think you are wise to take your time.
What I found with my one most clingy/manipulative relationship was that, very shortly into the relationship (less than 2 months), he manipulated a situation whereby I got thrown out of my share house and “conveniently” ended up living with him due to financial need. – He didn’t do cartoon bedcovers and he may be nothing like your guy, but I am now SOOOOO alert to the clingy guy; there will be no more EVER.
Your guy is a Gemini/Leo so I’m inclined to be kinder, Leo moons can’t be all bad, nevertheless, if there is one rule in any relationship, it is TRUST YOUR VIBES.
good luck !
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