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Qi Vampire Alert

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Before I bang on about Qi Vampires, a tech note: the site was offline for a few hours before – sorry. It was actually a result of diligence. Yes. I have an extra-strength back-up company & they did an upgrade which messed up.

But here we all are, up and stronger than ever; STILL HOT. Still getting our Mars on. Right?

Now Qi Vampires. I know i go on a bit about them but i think it is important to be able to recognize and fend them off. Plus we’re in the shadow of a Full Moon Eclipse trined by Saturn/Neptune and with Uranus going Direct.

Tap into this astro-vibe and you’re, like, super-powered.  But it irritates the fuq out of Qi Vampires. It’s such rarified energy. And it’s clear that change is coming.

So rather than sorting their own crap out and trying to get it together, be modern and of the Now, the Qi Vampire goes oozing up to the nearest individuated person they can see – probably amazing YOU – conceals their jealousy and attempts to steal your Moxy/Qi/Mojo. 

But they don’t just come right up and snarl at you, whilst siphoning off the vibe they want. No way. They’re nice. Real nice. But make no mistake about it; once upon a time this person would have you burnt at the stake/guillotined in two seconds. And they’d sit there knitting naff shit whilst you died.  

You know what i mean. Often they are more or less total strangers with some tenuous connection that you don’t give a damn about but that the Qi Vampire intends to exploit. So they sidle up to you – not caring whether or not you’re in your own inner realms at that point – and start crapping on about if the coffee you’re drinking is good or bad. Or just rambling on about what sort of day they had.

It’s irrelevant, they often smell bad (aurically or for real) and yet because Qi Vampire is being “nice” and you are presumably polite, you end up in a conversation with them. Note how drained and yet irritated you feel afterwards. You are not imagining it.

Well i say do NOT bother with politeness. Most people take well-mannered but mono-syllabic responses as the pleasant dismissal it is but not Qi Vampires. They will press on.

An example: i was totally nice to this guy who wanted to “do coffee” or “have dinner” with me to talk about some idea he had – he basically wanted to market crap to all my incredible commenters as he has gathered you lot are kinda awesome, smart, creative etc and i kept saying i am too busy and so now he is trying to get me to sign up to some stupid time management weekend workshop with him. Yes, i initially said i was not interested etc.

So really, Uranus is about to square Pluto again, the Zap Zone will be on for one and all. Tell Qi Vampires to go fuq themselves. Don’t let them siphon off even one nano-granule of your precious Moxy.

You don’t get to ping off the unbelievable growth energy generated by this aspect by piffling around letting this sort of thing take up your time, energy and mojo.

Uranus in Aries/Pluto in Capricorn redux is individuated and hard-working at something in the now. Qi Vampires are still living in a rapidly receding old era and they sense their only entree into the new era is via someone like You. Don’t let it happen. Brush them off. Now. And if they call you a stuck up bitch or a selfish bastard. great. Coming from a Qi Vampire, that sort of thing is a major compliment.

You know how when a certain sort of person dislikes you, it’s like proof you’re on the right path?

 

124 thoughts on “Qi Vampire Alert”

  1. 8O

    Love it Mystic! Especially ‘You know how when a certain sort of person dislikes you, it’s like proof you’re on the right path?’ 8O

    Also Mystic when your site was offline this morning… 8O 8O 8O 8O 8O
    It made me wonder what the internet world would be without you & I didn’t like it ONE BIT! 8O

    Annnnd I just have to say I LOVED LOVED this bit in the daily mystic today

    ‘New music = new neural pathways.’

    That is EXACTLY what it feels like… amazing Mystic!

    8O

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  3. OH WHY do I always get JOB OFFERS during Mercury Retrograde with some major other planetary fuqery going on ??!?! Oh and an eclipse!

    Have just given notice to current yucky job to go work somewhere else next year – have got to return signed contract by Dec 16 so perhaps will hold off until then to sign & seal the new job deal.

    Not a single psychic vampire in my vicinity: am a knob-free zone at the mo. Will be on high alert for them though!

    xx

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    • I know what you mean. But sometimes you don’t have control over the timing. I had to buy a car and did it during the last Merc RX. So far, so good. But I also had to get a house (just returned from living in the UK to California) so I leased a gorgeous place in the woods during the last Merc RX. Now, during this RX, I find out that the house is in foreclosure and that the landlady had taken my rent all this time and never paid her mortgage. The house is due to be sold at auction 9 days from now.

      Should I have couch surfed the last Merc RX instead of house hunting? But my new car is a gem and I’m very happy with it. So it was not all bad.

      Good luck with your job. I have heard that if it is an extension of something you started or dealt with during a previous RX, it can turn out just fine.

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  4. If only that Qi Vampire didn’t look so hot! I think a more accurate representation would be a slob on the couch with a phone in one hand and fried chicken in the other. But then I must admit I do like my eye-candy.

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  7. Great timing Myst!
    I have been unsure of whether I am currently dealing with one of these, but more of a conniving, poised-to-back-stab, qi vamp. the situation has escalated today and reading this, it is suddenly so clear – someone’s trying to suck me off in all the WRONG ways.
    New game plan formulated!!

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  9. I don’t put up with Qi Vampires, full stop, piss ‘em off before they have a chance to open their big gobs. I have simply got to the stage where I’ve sorted out who I want in m life and who I don’t. Simple, really. The worst Qi Vampire I came across was my twister-in-law. Came across as quite a sweetie but when you got to know her she was a smother other par excellence and a great black hole that sucked up humour and destroyed it. We both gave her the bum’s rush eventually. But MM, I just ADORE the pic, it is wondrous, beeeyootiful and inspirational!

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        • LL your post is a hoot. Love “twister in law” but luckily my Scorp/Sagg Moon sis in law is a dear and we have lots of laughs.

          Never had a Mother in law…well, yes I did but she lived in Iran and she died before I ever had a chance to meet her many years ago, so, was off the hook with that one. She was probably a wealth of wisdom however with what she could have shared.

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          • I got on well with MIL when she was alive, I think basically because I kept her favourite son alive when he nearly popped his clogs with Ross River fever. But I have the feeling that if I’d ever crossed her, she would be able to dish out a mighty hex without even thinking about it. She lived close to Pendle, home of the witches, and was incredibly psychic, the whole family is – Bryan, his daughter and his grand-daughters.

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              • ps, did see your link re: mandalas on the Uranian thread yesterday. Started to post to you but was late…Lovely to see you and hear your voice LL x

                Sure any good looking Aussie man could talk shit and I’d follow him anywhere…

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                • Oops, reply to “popped his clogs) turned up a bit late. Glad you liked the video, I really enjoyed doing them once I’d got the hang and found out how to upload them fast. Good job I’ve got a lot of Aqua in me so I can stooge around and find out these techie thingies.

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      • Thanks, goldenfleece, the dreaded Alzheimer’s isn’t creeping up on my :P I’m actually a bit neurotic because our house may be sold and we’re waiting to exchange contracts – in the middle of Mercury Retrograde, would you believe. Chewing fingernails furiously!

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  13. That is so cool….I just gave this kind of respose
    a vampire effin exec director this morning
    while trying to buy coffee in my zone….
    been waiting for an effin heavy trip eva since….
    AND I have an image of a bat on my tights today!

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  14. Incredible! I had someone say that the Qi Vampire in my life is there to show me how ready I am. And she is the highest level black magician I have come across. I have been attacked for the last five days, ah well, must get used to it.
    Sending out sweet compassion and love for her, it repulses her. It is hard work to do all night though.
    Note: Fear and irritation actually feed Qi Vamps so you need to channel your Higher Self and emit LOVE at them to get rid of them.

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    • OOOh, right: emit love to repel. I think I may have known that once but as the current Qi Vamp in my life is so incredibly irritating (and you’re right, she seems somehow to enjoy it -I keep thinking to myself: Shouldn’t she think I’m being a little bitchy right now? Why isn’t she leaving me alone?) I am just doing my best to stay the eff away from her even if it means being so rude as to get up out of my chair and walk away when she starts talking.

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      • Test it! Try your hardest for a week and see how it goes. Emanate gorgeousness and think beautiful thoughts when this person is around, it’s really interesting to watch the response.

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      • HAHA, too true Shell! I’m in the process of organising a trip to the Whitsundays and I have a free return flight from Qantas (courtesy of the grounding debacle) but I’m hesitant to book or fly with them during Merc Rx, especially since the tech issue they had a few days ago.
        Think I might fly with my trusty airline and take up Qantas’ free flight offer when Merc Rx is over.

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  16. Have definitely dealt with Qi Vampires in the past. A few, actually. And before I read this post, had completely forgotten about people like that.

    But this is good timing on this post, Mystic, (of course!) because I’ve been very put-off by almost every single person I’ve encountered over the past couple of weeks, and hadn’t been able to put my finger on why. Every person at work, every person in the city I live in… all their interactions with me seem really fakey-nice, and I’ve been left with the impression that they wanted something more from the conversation, from *me*, and were pissed off because they couldn’t get it.

    I thought I was going insane, but I like this explanation a whole lot more.

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  17. Ah yes, the Qi Vamps of late.
    One SUCKS so bad, he has literally made me sick as.
    Perhaps my bed ridden quarantine is a blessing in disguise?
    But what about dear old friends? – I’m avoiding one in particular like the plague, as she continues to associate with people I know are dangerous.
    She is obsessed with a cult that damn near killed me two years ago.
    Despite me insisting she dare not speak the ‘Devils’ name in my presence, she can’t stop herself from doing so.
    It’s sad – but time I was thinking ’bout no one else but ME.

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  18. HA!!!
    Remember my saturday???? The scorpio ex who showed up unannounced, asking if I had any work to share so he could make some money(he owes me money), then gets arrested and calls me from jail…..
    Perfect example of the qi vampire. He does have some sweet endearing qualities that he wants to share, but really, when are you going to show up as an equal????
    He called on monday, after getting bailed out by someone else, to say when he called me again on sunday it wasn’t to ask me to come get him out(my cell phone company wouldn’t let me take the call!). Really???

    Think that has pushed him away for awhile and thankfully no others in sight.

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    • Ha indeed FF!
      It was my Scorp ex husband that slammed me on Sunday, with all his self righteous lectures/ranting etc.
      Made me feel like a piece of sh*t.
      As a Scorp myself I can tell you, you were being played – and I’m glad you saw through his manipulative emotional/mind games.
      You deserve better.

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      • oh! the inside scoop from a Scorpio!!! Yes this behavior from him is predictable.

        Sorry to hear about your ex husband’s crap. You deserve better too. The self righteous junk has got to go! I hope the rotton feelings have passed. Sounds like you are sick too? Get some good rest, deep breaths, open the windows. Have that cry if you need it.

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  21. awwww yes…. this explains alot. Good thing I handled them the way I did. I usually to to nice but for some reason today I wasnt having it. Thank you

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  22. i do feel like i could be dealing with a qi vampire… but the vampire has to be a stranger? i’m feeling like it could be one of my two friends… or both of them? i’m not sure if they are or not, it’s very difficult for me to see what their true intentions are

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  23. Qi Vampire? I work with one. Used to be real nice, but as soon as I climbed up the ladder….shazam! The haterade comes at me. The dynamics have changed, its strange to think that because she can no longer delegate to me that she no longer likes me but with Moon in the 8th conjunct Lilith, stranger things have happened than that.

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  24. Yeah, the women at my workplace are scattering away from me as my mojo is rising.
    and passive-aggressive boss pulled a move to inspire rage but I stayed soooo cool.

    Feeling the “rarified energy”, loving it, hoping someone will call me a stuck up bitch but to my face. Asking the universe please for friends who want to be like Emerson said, “Live in the sunshine, swim the sea, drink the wild air…”

    Love & Peace

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  25. how do you do it?

    this is my last week! I had to sack someone and i hate doing it but it had to be done, for reasons i don’t want to go into here. My money, my decision, my responsibllity.

    i told this male ‘friend’ of mine and after about five mins i get that he is guilting me. Horribly so. later on i thought about and remembered various occasions. Like, in a big group lunch i sensed he was worrying about the bill so i made up a favour he had done so i could pay for him.

    later on i heard him telling someone it was okay for me as i am “loaded.” so what? it is no longer generous? There is more but i have realized that he is really envious, i hate being around him and he always makes me feel low.

    last week he referred to my daughters as being “from a broken home” and then said it would not matter if they were damaged psychologically as they only need to “trap” rich husbands. Passed if off as a joke at the time but then woke up at 3am thinking about it.

    he’s got to go, doesn’t he.

    lucy i love that quote and i will be your friend. aren’t you also a leo?

    and mercury retrograde, my phone caught on fire and melted.

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    • Dumparama time.

      I had a really bad attack of Qi vampires between the ages of 18-20 and I can spot ‘em a mile off now.

      I also have a stellium in Scorpio, so loyalty means a lot to me – the comment about you being “loaded would have been his first and last warning. I’d delete him from my phone and unfriend him on Facebook (if I was on Facebook, which I’m not cos I have Qi Vampires in my past. LOL) the very nanosecond he said that.

      The comment about your daughters is grounds for a swift kick in the nuts; but seriously – fade him out ! Leo’s give off a wonderful glow and they do attract sad, jealous people trying to steal their light…

      Friends should make you feel happy, loved and secure. If they don’t, they’re NOT your friend.

      *Puts away soapbox* – you can tell I learnt this lesson hard, can’t you ?

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      • Yes, sadly, DT, I realized some do not wish me well and so I said “farewell” (put yo ass at the bottom of the wishin’ well type of thing..)

        **Throws a penny in the wishing well**

        “A penny for your thoughts?”

        Says…”You don’t wanna know”…lol

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    • Dear TLS,

      What a deadshit.

      Old Jungle saying “Beware the insincere friend, he is more to be feared than a wild beast”.

      You’ll feel ligther afterwards (one always does after one has flushed a turd).

      Apologises for crassness. xx

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    • I love Lucy the Leo’s quote too, can we all be friends? With lots of hot men and name brand champagne?? It would be twelve kinds of awesome.
      ps TLS if anyone referred to my son as being from a broken home…not evolved, frankly. A ‘broken home’ is a fifties concept.
      TLS, was your phone an IPhone?

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      • I’m imagining a dinner/cocktail/pool party that goes until 6:00 am and when it’s done, a rat pack is formed with cool Leos and others (we’ll all complement and compliment eachother) on children, dogs, cats, taste in clothing, sense of humour, hobbies, and on.

        No negativity because the vibe cannot go below.

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    • Yes has to go. Anyone who won’t allow you to be the best you can be ditch em. When will people learn that putting others down does not make you look or feel better.

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    • Leo here yes…

      Maybe your phone caught on fire because your intuitive capabilities are on the rise and thus becoming telepathic.

      Never cool to talk about one’s daughters that way. You could tell him how you feel about that. Had several male friends in past who put me down when mojo was rising and had to sack them without fully explaining but I should have, for myself.

      If they won’t/can’t/aren’t attracted to the good energy, what is there to do and say and grow ? The times won’t support it.

      Thank you for saying you’ll be my friend. You can find me here. Good Luck !

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  26. Today did feel like an energy drain. All us therapists felt it…it just seemed to drag on and on and I sweat like a pig for three hours straight.

    My second patient this morning was not an energy drain (that came later in the afternoon), but she was an Aqua whose husband had just asked for a divorce that morning! Her work mates sent her home and she made an appointment to get a massage. Told her she is at least taking care of herself and to not be surprised if later she has an emo release. Made a note to look up her astro as saw her birthdate on her chart. Forget now tho if it was Feb 6 1963 or not…

    Poor thing. Apparently she has spent too much money shopping and her husband had had enough. Told her to take heart as Libran/Sagg Moon brother did not divorce sis in law after she went through her $360,000 settlement (from Erin Brockovich a la movie contaminated water thingy). She did spend alot of it on others however and then she went and got in debt on the American Express card to boot. She liked on line gambling for one…

    My point to the Aqua was that some drink, some gamble, some shop…perhaps her husband will rethink things. “Noone is perfect”.

    Meanwhile tonight, I bought a new phone to replace the one that got ruined in the jaccuzzi. No big committment with Merc Rx. It was on special and with tax cost me a whopping $5.72. Paid for with tips. Air time is just that “air” and words should be free (or nearly…lol).

    It’s a “Go” phone which means you just put money on it as you “go”…And if there ain’t money on the account then guess we ain’t goin’… :)

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  27. Jeezuz I can’t believe you put this up whilst I was at the hairdressers getting seething looks from other punters. I go in fresh from polishing the chrysalis (car named by my accupuncturist) in dirty work gear. I’m used to this kinda vibe from unknown females, who knows why i am just being me, but it was quite thick in the air. So while dying my hideous hormone dried hair I was offered a free hand massage whilst getting this divine service my hairdresser comes back with some free samples lol. Admittedly, not used to such attention I was a little unco. All could feel was them (& I maybe paranoid & wrong but stone like scowling faces said it all) thinking…who’s this fat bitch getting this attention!

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  28. Yes, I had a Qi vampire ask me out (but in a weird way). First I said yes (due to odd way asked–hard to explain). Then was miserable that I’d said yes. Then more miserable and dreading the “date.” Finally asked friend for advice and got a great “Dear John” idea and begged off in the nicest, clearest way almost a full week before event and QV lectured me on how I’d begged off the wrong way and could I think better of it next time. I don’t even know this person… Happy about that though:)

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  31. **MYSTIC, please make it stop.
    I checked the box for follow-up comments because I thought it was a good idea at the time and I started to get way too many emails, lol…so I unchecked the little box and it goes back to it being checked off. So, I uncheck the box again and post a comment and it stays unchecked but still is sending me like a gazillion emails. Is there a glitch? or just merc retro… can you please look into it? thanx

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        • At the risk of sounding like a complete psycho (more so than usual, anyway) you can take a tiny piece of their hair and put it into a ziplock sandwich bag and write on it “Go Away Evil Housemate” or such like and then bung it in the freezer.

          This has two aims:
          1) Its actually quite a powerful spell and
          2) If they find it, they’ll think you’re a complete nutter and move out :)

          hmmm… maybe this is advice on how to be a Qi Vampire…. either way, it’ll get rid of your housemate….

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  34. Well I’m not sure if I’m under the influence but I’m on alert. Sometimes those vamps don’t stand out immeditely. Dig the post MM and digging a bit of time reading your site as it’s been days. Been caught catching up and it’s been awesome indeed thus far but I’m also accustomed to more me time and that’s been a little sparce. Maybe that is another form of giving away power. Certainly it suggests all things balance and boundary related.

    Love the pic!

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  35. Thanks so much for this Mystic. So timely. Today I met with my Qi vampire brother and QV family solicitor to wrap up the last details of my mothers will. After 20 hrs of living next door to smother-brother he is gone. Paid out and pissed Off ! I am free !!! I am especially glad to be freed from the anger and resentment of having daily contact with him. Now I think I will be able to combat him with love, as was suggested earlier as the best way. I know it infuriates him ! Free. Free. Free

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  36. So very very dead on. Wish I would have read this before answering the phone last night. I swear if I did not know better I would think you had written this to me to explain my phone conversation and how icky I felt for a few hours after I got off the phone.

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  37. Ahhrgh I had a real spate of Qi Vampires a few years ago, it seemed like all my “friends” were exactly like that and a major energy drain. I was in a pretty depleted state and yet tried to feed them, support and help them, even though I really wasn’t in any position of strength to help. Of course, they didn’t offer any help when I needed it. However the silver lining is that I moved cities and met a new group of friends, who were supportive and nurturing and encouraged me to stand on my own feet and recover! So I’m now much better at recognising Qi Vampires, I even think I may be allergic.

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  38. My dream last night:

    I was passing with a cab through dangerous zones in my city, looking at the “food cars” (a version of the food trucks). I passed many times, then I saw men approaching those food cars with notoriously bad intentions. Then, it was day and I saw a man that looked like a giant baby, pick up a poor man’s food truck and I went out of the car to intervene. The poor man was absolutely appaled and couldn’t do anything. I confronted the man and he got one of the shattered glass pieces of the floor and attempted to stuck in on my throat. I could escape but I wanted to stab him repeteadly. Then it was night again and I was on the cab seeing many food cars from afar. A voice in the distance says “don’t engage in fights”.

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  39. No wonder. Happened in the train to Melbourne. There I was watching the country unfold and she has gas and burping.. telling me she likes tall dark handsome men ha! And I am thinking. Change. Came back slept twelve hours.. whinged about psychic leeches to my new lover and there mystic sends a note about qi vampires.

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  40. A friend is dealing with a dastardly person at the mo in business. Not really a QI vampire though (they’re apparently not very nice and a liar to boot). They’re more like a shonky business-blocker. Trying to give them advice. will see how it plays out.

    I’ve known a couple of QI vampires in my time. Are these mostly women? I either have nothing to do with them at all or smile politely which irks them more cause they know you don’t believe a word that comes out of their mouths. It also makes them keep trying *ergh* so thanks for the added info about telling them to go fuq themselves Mystic. Pluto in Cap has made me get rid of a lot of my politeness re people who don’t deserve it. Still a ways to go though.

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  41. I wonder how people deal with such people when it’s, say, your mother?? My mum leans on me for emotional support when I don’t have any support of my own and not much left to give. She is not there for me. I know i’ve made many mistakes in life and am not where I am supposed to be but she has no sympathy or understanding of how i’ve struggled. She has made it difficult for me to make major achievements in life. She has health issues without making any effort to get healthy and fit and does not always take her medication (which meant she ended up in hospital), she has emotional breakdowns, ongoing complex problems with her mother and my father. It’s always something. She double books things all the time and leaves me waiting. She has also been angry when my sister, or I, achieve something in life e.g. first boyfriend, first house, graduations. I can just see her ruining our weddings if we get there one day. She often talks about how people don’t deserve things or looks down on people that get what they want or have nice things. It can be so awful to hear some of the things she says about others. My sister is her clear favourite and she thinks the world of her but she comes to me for emotional support or help when she is sick- which is often. A lot of it comes from her mother but that doesn’t help me. Sometimes I don’t know what to do because she is my mum and she is not like that all the time, just a lot of the time and I know she loves me in some way. My mum is sag sun, scorpio moon. I’m taurus sun, aqua moon, leo rising. I’m not sure of her rising sign because she was adopted.

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    • Water Pig – sorry to hear about the problems with your mother. Scorpio Moon – says it all! I had to deal with an alcoholic father and I learned from him that, even though she’s your mother, the only way to deal with emotional bloodsuckers like your mum is to step back and let them cope however they do it. I had a very clear dream on this issue, one I’ve never forgotten: I heard an old, decrepit farmhouse had burned down in the town in which I was living. When I got there, it was slightly up a hill and still in smoking ruins. They were surrounded by emergency workers who were dealing with the situation. I mentioned it to a friend, the dream happened just after 9/11 and she suggested it was fears relating to this tragedy. I knew it wasn’t because never in my wildest imagination could I see a terrorist attack happening in our remote little country town. But when I went home, I looked up the house next door, where my father was living and creating mayhem in his life, and realised it was advice to me – to step back and allow the emergency workers to take over. And so they did – medical staff, ambulance officers, and a really good social worker. I cut off from my father entirely for about four months until he treated me with respect. Hard to do, I know. But in this sort of situation, our parents know precisely what buttons to push to keep you jumping to their tune. If your mother has problems, I’d like to suggest you get a list of support workers, give it to her, tell her how much you love her but you need your own life, and step back. Sometimes we need to let those nearest and dearest to us to sink or swim, it’s their life lesson, and when you are the victim, you need to care for yourself first, you’re no good to you, your mother or anyone if your life is so stuffed because of your mother’s selfishness, which is what it is, when you boil it down to the basics.

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  43. BLARGH I could have used this like 16 hrs ago when I ran into one of hubby’s co-workers who must be one, because everytime I interact with him, I end up feeling exactly like you said, when I’m done. When people say “Liberal Elites?” I think they’re talking about him. Freaking clueless when it comes to financial struggles. The man was INCREDULOUS that someone would rent. And that hubby should just be grateful for his job…even though the Republicans have frozen federal salaries, and we are a family of 6 on one income…

    Well next time I’ll tell him to take a leap, and smile.

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  44. Had one recently and managed to let go. I didn’t realize how dark, and negative he was until he was gone from my life. We were friends but, he was so negative about everything.
    I felt drained and down trodden after chatting with him. He is a very jaded, sarcastic person. Some of his jokes were however, funny though.

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  45. Basically told a higher-up to go fuq off wit it, damn I feel great. I felt so great I noticed something potentially important that I had overlooked, something potentially worth my attention completely unrelated to the fuq off situation. Thanks Mystic, you’re my Babe Ruth ;)

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  46. Wow this is very timely. An acquaintance has decided all of a sudden to be my best friend. Just won’t leave me alone. But being her best friend includes me doing lots of free work for her. Somehow I got talked into it but stupidly found myself not saying no. Seem to attract these people every couple of years. But the great thing is I can recognise it now. Where as before I couldn’t. So am trying really hard to smile nicely and walk backwards out the door.
    Had a few of these who basically get resentful when you are looking and feeling your best because you are only supposed to be a supporting role to THEM. So they chip away at you slowly but surely.

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  47. Oh, so that explains the Russian taxi driver who kept me for ten minutes outside my house whilst he detailed his thoughts about Zionist infiltration of the Mafia in Russia, how the Rothchilds funded the Russian revolution & exist because of Napoleon, or some such bollox. Talk about a QI vampire. Not to mention various creeps at work. This vibe was terribly strong for me yesterday!!

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  49. Qv’s are everywhere.. I’ve had to put up with them all my life and see when i fire up, they back down.. Im not afraid to admit i have my faults either but they are full of empty promises and steal ideas. Mofos are breeding like pests. These people also spread rumours too so i think shaun of the dead syndrome has been set off. Only few real deal peeps survive..Oh and another thing, new age vampires are part and parcel of this im assuming?!? Guru spirits and talking to the dead is another form of attention seeking. Keep away.

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  50. i can relate to this post. I have had to let go of certain friendships that were based on some kind of barter system, not on love. I made bad choices in my life by mixing with incompatible people. I think sometimes you need to go on a retreat and wait for the new. People can be so fake it is sometimes hard to tell the real from the unreal. One friend in particular attacked me when i was in housing crises when i did not even ask for her help! She wrote me a text saying to go and stay in a tent in a caravan park, not to be a burden on friends. Then an unstable male friend of mine, ends up in a psyche ward. He is charismatic and a musician but very needy, childlike. She starts hassling me to get him to come and stay in a tent in her backyard. Where she can thrill him with her cooking skills and get him of drinking cans of coke, smoking bongs, all with her magical powers. Meanwhile she didn’t give a crap when i needed help. Oh well, bring on the new universe please!!~

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  51. Whenever I read thises posts I always suspect I may be a Qi Vampire – I am pisces rising have a very sensitive way to vibes of other people – and am quite dreamy and quiet – I admire those who are confident (obviously) and outgoing … does admiring (tyring not to envy) mean Qi Vampiring. I dont know? I do suck up poeples bad vibes though – eg grumpy hungover people, or people who are *really* unaware of their shadows, but actually, in my life, I cannot think of one qi vampire (making me suspicious taht Im that person!). I try and am growing up – …not putting bad vibes out there about peeps etc.

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    • Hi, Sagg-scorp girl – being dreamy and quiet is fine if that’s who you are, just be yourself! As for admiring other people, no, it doesn’t mean you’re a Qi Vampire – admiring is quite different being negative and sending out nasty vibes and trying to drag people down. The trick is to avoid the latter, don’t overdo the admiration of the former, and do admire yourself. The world needs the outoing as well as the dreamy and quiet!

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    • Of course everyone thinks that everybody else is the Qi vampire. Lol
      I admire your honesty and self awareness, but your astro signature certainly fits that – Saggo (truth) and Scorp (knowing our demons) :)

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    • Qi Vampires MANTRAS:

      Misery loves company.
      What can you do for me.
      I know what I am talking about and you don’t.

      Sometimes they are really needy and constantly need help or energy. Other Qi vampires can be dominating, needing the energy they steal from you by making you feel bad. YUCK!
      Once I called my exbrother in law a psychic vampire to his face! He was always getting off on making people squirm by talking down to them, making them feel like idiots.

      I am alot like you…dreamy, quiet, sponge like of others energy. That doesn’t make us qi vampires. That is a major reason I live so remotely that I rarely even see people.
      Maybe you are lucky and really just are not around any energy theifs.

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  53. Mystic… Everyone.. Is there a ‘post Qi sucked’ First aid/Qi transfusion repair kit ???!!!… (as in, too late youve been majorly drained & all shields infiltrated)

    Because, I’ve been invaded yet again & for me, it’s very painful… & I can’t seem to get rid of the bastards…

    I was up all night trying to release myself from the syphonning & it’s a real pain in neck, head, groin etc… Energetically & physically.
    I have natal Nep (11th) squ Moon in Leo i(in 8th) & I’m really over dealing with these bastards.
    They are relentless & it puts me off dealing with people & doing my energy/clairvoyant work altogether : (

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    • …& I have transitting Pluto going thru my 12th House too, still… & maybe forever, judging by how slow it’s moving.

      This has increased the frequency & intensity of the Qi-sucking incidents almost a thousand fold in the last 2years… from both sides of the good ol’ veil, ie: those who are still here & those who have died. I’ve had some lovely experiences, passing on info for loved ones & just some rather inspiring chats, but I’ve also felt attacked, completely annihilated & powerless… & have been shown some very disturbing scenes, from those who have suffered terribly before leaving their bodies.

      If there is anyone who has had similar experiences on an ongoing basis & is able to share tips for dealing well with any of this, I would love to hear from you… Especially because I really want to be investing my time & Qi in joy, rather than fending off Qi Vamps 24/7.

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