They’re not. I repeat. Virgos are not Control Freaks.
Yes, they’re details conscious but essentially, Virgos don’t (usually) care if you ignore their observations, suggestions or corrective nagging.
They simply want to be heard, understood and for you to be home or at your computer and mentally present when the I-Told-You-So communique arrives.
But it’s the Fixed Signs – Leo, Taurus, Scorpio and Aquarius – especially when these signs are Rising that tend to be Control Freaks.
You don’t want to take their recommendation for a restaurant? That might be a problem. They’re not so minute about it as our Virgo but they take it as a personal insult if you “ignore” their advice.
Top Ranking Control Freaks i.m.o. – Leo Rising, Taurus Anything, Aquarius Moon…but the latter lot keep it REAL quiet and/or they cage it in terms of conscious evolution or amorphic resonance, where you’re aligned etc.
Leo makes out like you are not “cool” if you are not doing what they think you should be doing and Taurus turns it into an issue of moral decline, fast-paced moral torpor turning the whole world psycho-bats because you started it all by being gluten-free for the day or not needing to see the Taurean’s kiniesologist.