Lady/Xena/Venus in Aries: Excuse me. Dude haven’t you heard? Mars is Direct already?
Man/Mars in Leo: Om. It’s not out of the Shadowzone yet, still picking up speed.
Tags: astrology blog, March 2010 astrology, Mars, Mars direct, Mars in Leo, Venus in Aries, Venus Mars astrology, Xena, Xena astrology
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Holy Crap.. I was more used to Mars being retro than I realized! I’m already feeling the shift big time. Time to wake up.. the rest is definitely over.
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same same Scorp!!
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Mystic and peeps:
I have been reading daily Mars’ retro-tribulations for some time now, waiting in eager anticipation for the eleventh when we would start to get some relief from the rut. My job has been in a shambles for some time now (since November if I’m honest) but I’ve been hanging onto it for dear life. Today I woke up excited to see some improvement, but guess what I got instead? Fired! Yep. It’s been about three hours now, and Im a rollercoaster of emotions. Please someone tell me that this is an opportunity in desquise, something uplifting! In the event it’s important, I’m a quad-Scorp (Sun, Merc, Venus, Neptune) Aries rising Aquarius moon.-
omg! Lisa, mate, darl, hon! Have you got friends and family with you at the moment? Make sure you keep your protien levels up! Can you budget for a Mystic Cosmis Consult?
You never know what is round the corner hon. I ‘fell over’ about two years ago after pushing a job uphill for nine-months. After that horrid experience I never thought I would get work again but I’m now doing my phd and tutoring at a uni I absolutely love.
Hugs to you. Take care of yourself.
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Lisa, I had the same thing happen to me recently. It was actually the last shitzone moon in January. It was devastating to me. I had been in hell for 2 years but just didn’t want to “be the one who walks away.” I was asked to resign. For several weeks I was more depressed than I let anyone know. I still don’t know what the universe has planned for me.
Yesterday, the same person who fired me asked me to come back for an office luncheon because she wanted to give me a gift. It was a plack of appreciation for my service. (Yes, she is seriously fucked up!) But I went. I dreaded it for weeks and thought of backing out but my ego wouldn’t let me. I can honestly say that I thought I was going to throw-up when I was driving to the office. But as soon as I walked into the building I had an overwhelming feeling of “Thank G-d, this is over with. I don’t have to put up with the crap that had infested my life.” I’m so glad I went. I had a good time with my co-workers and they expressed their support for me. As I was driving home I felt the closure I so desperatly needed.
Today, one of my co-workers resigned. He is a wonderful man who got a great job in his home town. One of the people who fucked me over is getting transfered to a place he hates. And the person who fired me is facing a mutiny. This all happened today.
I’m praying that Mars moving forward will be good for me. All I can say is that in one day I went from feeling hopeless and depressed to acknowledging that what has happened so far has been good for me.
I’m sending you strength and encouragement. Please know that you are not alone. G-d, or whatever universal force, has a plan for you.
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wow that is full on.
so good you have closure and your pride. My friend is going through similar office evil. nothing feels as crap as thinking that you are powerless in your own life. big ups for braving the demonsx
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Thank you ms.
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Yes. Losing a job is one of the most stressful things that can happen to a person. So try not to be afraid to go through the phases of grief.
But yes, this cloud could have a very very silver lining!
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omg Lisa, big hug hun…. yes, it IS an opportunity, if somewhat a shocking one. Something better will come along – but its totally OK to be on a rollercoaster of emotion right now. What do you want to emerge out of this? What part of you has been longing for freedom? Job turbulence/rut is awful, so at the very least you have relief.
:::passing cup of tea and hanky::::: there there honey x
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Lisa – how terrible. can feel overwhelming when one’s mid emotional maelstrom. as others here rightly say – that is a normal reaction when in shock.
MANY friends lost dud jobs recently.
1 gfnd took an entire week off – not thinking about it / next / anything. indugled herself in old fashion down time. relaxed. slept in. watched movies. laughed with friends. then week 2 focussed on what’s next. Try this if you can afford to?you have our full empathy – most here have seen how many of my projects fell over (no fault of my own) & then dusted off & on to plan 745 #3. yes it can be finanically stressful. very. & a dint to our ego.
but – our emotional health & physical wellbeing are paramount.take good care of yourself & surround with ppl who make you feel good / are understanding & supportive.
imagine if in 6 months or 12 months you looked back & saw this as doing you a BIG favour. often the outcome. even if doesnt feel like it from where you sit now.
strength & inspiration to you !!
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Lisa, sorry to hear about the job loss. I know it beyond sucks at the mo, but like the others have said, I do believe it has a (very hidden at the mo) very silver lining…. Go surf the emotions when they come up. I’ve been surfing mine, ain’t perty…
Dunno how it might work with you, but I find the lil gratitudes help; I check fridge, there’s food for schnukems, so that’s ok; check cupboards, there’s some food for schnukems, that’s ok; roof still hanging over head, that’s good; I can still go to the toilets by myself; that’s damn good! So maybe do your own version? This isn’t meant to be facetious at all, btw, just to be clear, and I’m hoping it didn’t come across that way.
At the end of the day, crying or not, I curl up in bed with the schnukems by my side. Le fin.-
Lisa, this happened to my friend yesterday too! He had just been made general manager of a busy venue a fortnight ago.. and was sacked on some cooked up story of how he didn’t put a $10 sale into the til right away! Hello? In hospitality this happens all the time. No one can even figure out what their real agenda was.. he was perfect for the job, loved it, passionate etc etc. He is totally devastated, and like your story, it came totally out of the blue.
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Yes! agendas…you hit the nail on the head upbeat scorp…all about agendas. I feel like this mars direct is bringing agendas to light. Yuk! I had a horrid email yesterday, totally out of the blue, like a sacking really except that i work for myself. Just awful. Big shocks. But afterwards, strangely calm… relief, even. So glad i didn’t retaliate. Just like that saying ‘hate binds us to our enemies…’
Lisa, go home, put some nice music on, draw yourself an epsom salt bath, pour a glass of wine, cry and sing and be glad that you never have to go back there, whatever their agendas were…
Toast your new beginnings, even if you can’t see them yet. They are there.
Hugs from a pisces whose been through the wringer lately tooxx
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I knows its not entirely apt Lisa but this is one of my favourite Dalai Lama quotes: “Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.” I hope losing your job is a wonderful stroke of luck x
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beautifully put Gem!
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So true Gem
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I’m loving it! Things have started to hit the fan. Wham! And this is just the first day. It is like a rubber band was being pulled and now it’s just been let go.
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Me too. If the 11th is the the take off before Mars picks up speed this year is going to be a cracker. Yesterday was unbelievable. It seriously couldn’t have been a more apt way for Mars to go direct for me – out of limbo and into the fire.
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And then today continued to be amazing. I love you Mars direct.
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Things have just gone from quiet to quieter.
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yeah i am feeling that vibe virgo cat. where i thought there would be a shift there has just been a backwards move. *sigh*… perhaps more to be revealed as we move out of the shadowzone?
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Yes same here, eerily so. I’m sure that there’s ‘stuff’ going on behind the scenes, gathering itself together to jump us maybe….?
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Just a little terror in not knowing. Ok ok, clearly this is an opportunity to be cool with the unknown.
Gem (above) wrote to Lisa: I knows its not entirely apt Lisa but this is one of my favourite Dalai Lama quotes: “Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.”
Taking that to heart…
Still, some smooches would not go amiss!!
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Yes maybe that’s the ‘surprise’
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deep breath. That would be nice.
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hmm. had total hair disaster yesterday – hairdresser stained my face with colour. She tried to fix it with ACETONE! burned my skin… argh.
today I’m trying desparately to re-beautify after 24 hours of feeling haggard and old.
had been holding off (for mars direct) having DLE investigated by child support agency and just got out the family court affidavits from our property settlement – his attacks on me were really low. Basically I am some kind of mentally deranged gold digger and he just a lowly hard working student living in poverty that has had his beloved children stolen from him. I feel sick reading over such rubbish.
thank godd/ess there is the lovely new moon to look forward to.
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Yes, nothing like staring at yourself in a mirror for three hours at a salon to make you haggard. Then to have them stuff up your hair?!! Taurean Alchemist, it’s lucky you obviously have the secret to turning dirt into gold what with your pooooor, student, innocent ex being so charming. Loads of luck with mars going direct!
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Oh dear TA, what an asshole!!
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And I cannot BELIEVE that a hairdresser used Acetone on your face!!
My 8 yr. granddaughter would know better than that…Did she not SMELL the abrasive fumes? Good Lord…-
Hey TA, breaking news on the tele here in U.S…. Mom of four hires hit man for hubby for $20k.
(you didn’t hear it from me
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TA,
Hitman Mom had just spent $145 at a salon before the cops stung her….They’re saying her mug shot quite gorge…
Be extra careful!!
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Fresh blow out in her mug shot and a brow wax… Hilarious…
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Justice will be served. Stay strong, evoke your Mars warrior.
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TA send in UBERS. she’ll straighten the prick out!
hope yr hair sorts ASAP! xox
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thanks for the support, sweet peeps
I was just pondering the consequences of DLE’s (hypothetical) sudden demise… not great for the kids, but a deliciously wicked fantasy.
also having fantasies of pasting up posters of him all over town with headline “this man is a dead beat dad who does not pay child support for 4 children, owns property, travels, wears designer clothes, drives a european luxury car, is planning a big wedding to a woman who he plans to have another baby with and he has a very small penis to match his IQ”
*sigh* I’m not feeling very much like an alchemist right now. Must go meditate upon some sacred geometry or something.
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The money, that’s what I’d thought…That’s why he even more “holeish”, if ya know what I mean. With his small wee-wee maybe his wife will balance the books when she has an affair….
Dated my neurosurgeon as I think I’ve mentioned before. Millionaire but small wee-wee. Both wives cheated on him and of course I realized why.
DLE better watch his back, er, wee-wee…
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rofl! snort! Sweetpea you really cheered me up
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weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!
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I am never going to be able to think of that computer game without smiling again…
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I have to deal with a guy at work who has small dick syndrome-he compensates with an oversized ego.
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The Napolean complex.
Thing is, they are quite easy to run over with the car…Head excepted which will take a pass or two….
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Sorry I didn’t reply sooner ta. But you know how I feel about people who deprive their own children, or any children for that matter. I’d like to think the law will catch up with him. Best of luck.
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I dont know what is happening, its like nothing ever happened in the first place. But things are different (if that makes sense). The change of seasons too is making me feel strange and nostalgic.
Everyone im my domain are laying low. Havent heard a peep from anyone.
Mars still on my mercury, I was good since december, then the last few weeks I have let my voice rage!!
Hugs to everyone. We need a good mars ritual to welcome said planet back into our lives!!
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Xena to man…
“Time to come outta your meditation, pronto, big boy!!”
“Don’t touch me, I have not yet gone to the Father”
Actually, Mars backed up to within 2 degrees of my 28 Cancer Vesta in 2nd house opposite Moon in 8th before turning around. Feelin’ the Spirit.
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Spirit….Feelin’…..
Well of course AFTER the hit man suggestion and calling TA’s ex an asshole…
Soz God. x
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I’m jealous Sweetpea, you know your stuff! I’m relatively new to astrology. Wish I knew half of what you are talking about. Love your insights too. TX
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Aw, just studied here and there. Thanks doll.
Vesta is sacredness to me. Someone’s NN was once on my Vesta and his SN and Venus were on my Moon. We had a battle and Spirit won is all I can say.
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I’ll be trying to figure that one out all night. But I will. “I don’t want no one’s venus on my vesta without my permission” That’s all I can say!
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lol….DITTO baby….
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yeah but you cant see what her other hand is doing ?
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That’s ripe with possibilites daveyl
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LOL, THAT I’ve seen many times before!
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SP i don’t understnd your comment about quite easy to run over with a car. Please explain.
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The Napoleon (Bonaparte) complex is where a man is small in height (or perhaps otherwise) and so compensates by being a jerk.
If small, he’s easier to run over, that’s all….
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And with a big ego (head), will need a few tries….possibly an 18 wheeler if extra stubborn
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Speaking of 18 wheelers…
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Bluelibra, 2Natured, Virgocat, Taurean Alchemist, and Rockstar (and anyone else who sent good words my way) THANK YOU SO MUCH!! I didn’t know anyone would respond, not to mention say such encouraging and helpful things. I have a wonderful support system in my family and friends, I have my health, I have my SCORPIONIC dogged determination and wit, and I will be fine. Like 2Natured, I can NOT walk away until I say it’s time, and in this case, my employer felt it was time before I did. I did nothing wrong, I am pround of my work, and it was pure politics (I would not do something unethical). More fundamentally, YOUR WORDS lifted me up. I am so thankful for you cyber friends. THANK YOU!!!!
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Lisa, please know that you have friends here who have been through what you are going through and wish you well.
It will get better. You know in your mind that’s true but in your heart you are not feeling it. Take the time you need to heal yourself. It’s been 2 months for me and I am still hurting. I did an astroconsult (my first one) last week. It was very enlightening and helpful. He told me that I should work on allowing myself to grieve and to give it until May of June. Sounds like a long time. Work on the resumes. Do the groundwork you need to do. But give yourself a good week or two to just feel it. Cry. Purge it. Be the Phoenix who rises from the ashes.
As a side note, with all that Scorp you are probably thinking dark thoughts and vengence. As a Scorp Moon. I say: Rock it!!! Makes you feel better. Don’t feel guilty for having vengeful homicidal stinging thoughts. It’s part of the process. And it will help you feel better. (Just don’t act on them!)
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being a tad scoprish about these things too I would say if you are keen to slip a rusty razor blade or 2 down his pants then ring Lifeline. I had thoughts of smashing my ex’s windows and i rang them and said can you stop me smashing my ex’s windows and they said ” we’ll try” and thats all i needed to hear – plus the 1 hour whinge about him. i ring LL when I know my firends have had enuf of me whinging they are fantastic.
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Good luck Lovely Lisa! I was retrenched last year and am about to start a new gig, so things can work out and they will for you too. Everything peeps have already said is so true. And I would add that you can and should be a bit picky when you job hunt. My ego was so bruised, I was applying for jobs well below my capacity. Whatever these losers who fired you might think may think, you are valuable and kick ass and have a helluva lot to offer! Yes, it sucks when things we thought we had sorted out fall in a heap or we don’t get to control a situation. Take some time out while you feel like you’re in free fall and I promise you’ll be back on your feet on no time. Xx
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ps champers – champers debrief?
am around, hope you had a fab trip!! xox-
Hi RLP! Still on the road, digging the free wifi. Back Thu. I will Be in touch. Xx
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Lisa way back when I used to sit in board rooms.
bored.
token female & only one under 30. innevitably the power play began. to survive I’d sit there & imagine them all in their underpants.
this is a fantastic & highly recommended technique!!
the trick was to not brurst out laughing. kept things in perspective.not the only board that’s interesting is related to surf / skate or snow.
none requiring a room.
get out & about, treat yourself this weekend.
dream bright new futures & go get em.
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Good luck with what ever comes your way I’m sure it will be worth it. It sounds like after the initial surprise you’ve hit the ground running always a good tactic.
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Can I try and make peace between my sisters and I yet? I have been holding off while Mars is retro!!
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well there’s that new moon in compassionate pisces on tues 16th… maybe that is good…
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Right you are U-Pisces, I will go hard on the peace-making then!
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I don’t know about anyone else, but I’m reeaalllly cranky. Have been for days and days. Thought that Mars direct would alleviate it, but it hasn’t!!! I feel even grumpier!!!
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me too twinstar… i was doing alright yesterday and the day before (just when mars was at zero or something) then today… BOOM! grumpytown. just when i thought things were looking up…
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*waves*
XTRA grumpy and short with peeps today. I feel it’s only gonna get worse
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Yeah, I think everyone is cranky, on the road, at work, everywhere!
Fire Trine I can imagine how you are just waiting to make your peace with your sisters. It is always good to make one’s peace methinks. So long as you guys can stay even tempered and logical and not go off on tangents, you should be able to do it. Maybe give them chocolate first?? Or if you can cope wait till Sunday as per Saturn Girl Scheduler?
Lisa, so sorry about your job loss, but you know what? There is even a better job for you around the corner. I always belive that as one door closes, another will open. It is just a horrid way to leave – the Pox on them all. Dont worry, it will come back and bite them on their yucky bottoms.
TA cannot believe you went for a pick me up and instead got acetone! : o Hope they are trying to make it up to you, as they have made major OH&S blunders there. What a pity you could not dip your shitty ex’s little wee wee in the acetone! : o I am shocked at myself, how wicked is this? Must be my Scorp side. Cannot stand father’s who make more babies, when they don’t look after the one’s they already have. I am amazed how little penied guys chaet etc. Sweetpea as per usual is hilarious and naughty with her wee wee clowning! I am surprised prowln has not got on the act! : >
Hang in there luverlies one and all including whiskered ones – davidl et al- this all will pass…….. : > xxxxx Got to…..or I will lop off a head or two. Hmm must get out my Kill Bill 1 & 2 again.
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HEY GUYS! My Saturn Neck was a pinched nerve! Now unpinched but still hurts like HELL though, off the Voltarin I feel a bit more ME…
But so painful to type – please forgive for slack posting/e-mailings et al AND this is important, though i cannot go into detail. An unpleasant e-mail (prob metaphysically to with pain in neck) has manifested & i/this site need to go on the mother of all subscriber drives, for reasons to do with newspapers, not moi…
If you are feeling at all cashed up pls consider gifting a friend a sub…
And to the peeps made redundant etc, it’s really classic that things simmering for a while unleash (mixed metaphors i know, painkillers) with Mars Direct.
And yes, think bk to all those times you thought a job loss/relationship ending was HELL and so wrong but actually it worked out bloody well for you. You know?
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Great Mystic….Glad you’re feeling better and was going to say earlier, ICE, ICE, ICE…..Pinched nerves means inflammation…..No heat!!
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Have had a Saturn Neck (love the term Mystic
) since Mars went direct yesterday and the usual remedy of essential oils mix massaged lovingly and maybe an advil/nurofen – if desperate – had no effect whatsoever. Finally shifting after an afternoon nap today – peeps pissing me off made me want to retreat too. Haven’t had this prob in a year – since I left a job I hated. Definite metaphysic possibilities. Stay off the computer if possible. I know it’s hard considering this place and your work. But it will be worth it in the long run. We need a Mystic who looks after herself. Been eager to send an email after my consults arrived but will wait a bit so as not to aggravate your neck.
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Mystic – have genius idea for you. related to new biz am mid process landing. but is genius. you will LOVE it. it’s not far from actualizing.
things published on paper are dead.
not Italian Vogue but 90% of the rest
they have no money. digital is where its at.are you quaffing walnut essence?
hope cricked neck abates immediately!!
xox
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Apparently not inflamed – muscles spasmed but no inflammation. And am not better yet! Getting home with spazzed out neck to bitchy e-mail, ick.
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Fuqers…..Cool compress for you our lovely….xo
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mag phos cell salts is the thing for muscle spasm
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thats the last thing you want when you got serious physical ailment -bitchy emails!
there’s a group going around called ‘love your hooker and pay them well’
think there should be a ‘love your astrologer and pay them well”if anything ever came of me I would hire you for astro biz forecasting in a heartbeat. with your knowledge on art fashion limelight creatives/ public eye astro cycles (with depth!) it would invaluable to many
how are you not overly booked in LA for this service?
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That’s a bugger Mystic! Rest up. Am sending you virtual massages.
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Hey Mystic, I’m allergic to voltaren, it’s pure poison for me. Have you ever tried magnets? They work wonders for me. Can be expensive, but even my kids use them now…..
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sending out SOS calls to the universe for you MM. hey all you people who read or write on this site but ahven;t subscribed do it,You’ll be supporting and keeping alive this wonderful nurturing place that MM has built for us. Sent with love.
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Yes, Alpha Mystic rules!!! DAILY scopes people. DAILY. Of the same fine quality and detail as the weeklies and monthlies, but DAILY. More essential than coffee or brekkie or sex! Okay, not sex, but great value for money.
Get well soon darling Mystic, you sexy astro sorceress.
The acupuncture will continue to kick in but keep that neck relaxed.
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Good grief. Lisa, very sorry to hear about the firing. I am a tad concerned about my position too – next week shall tell all. My astro don’t look too good, neither…. The only time I was ever fired lead to such a terrific period a month or two later that I was honestly glad it happened. Have a silver lining or six – it will happen.
Poor Mystic, hope the neck gets better very soon….this Mars turnaround is knocking people over everywhere in my immediate vicinity: 2 birthday parties cancelled last night due to viruses…I was quite glad to stay in though – so tired I could barely feed myself. My lodger crashed and burned at 9 pm too, she’s only 22 (lightweight
Bad hair, loonies on the road, people going invisible, its all going on. It’ll all be better by the equinox, promise. Gonna have me a leap about at Avebury with my kids and bring in the Spring properly! (I’m in UK, so seasonally backwards/forewards whatevs…) Namaste, and stay blessed, lovely ones..
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Happy Spring Scorpionix! Hit the viatmin C, fresh garlic and flowers to ward away those darstadly viruses. Tiger balm massaged into the soles of your feet (preferrably by someone sexy named Sven or Svendy) also helps invoke the Xena within.
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MM afficiondaoes! May I ask for your advice once again?? I’m having feeble moments of communication ve the male of ze species on a particular dating sight, (yes, ok, I know, but I’m not a clubber, cruiser or cougar) BUT have refrained from making ‘contact requests’ whilst Mars was awol.. so:
Given the new moon starts @ monday do I start ‘making contact’ / laying potential groundwork over this weekend or do I wait and send, ‘Hello!’ messages on Monday?
Whaddaya reckon esteemed astro sage(s)?
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send them now i reckon!! (but that’s my moon in Sagg talking). Lay the groundwork now and wait for responses on New Moon (which is actually Tuesday 8.02am).
And there’s nothing wrong with dating online. There isn’t the stigma attached to it like a few years back. Tara Moss (model turned author) met her husband online. You just have to wade through a lot of slimey root rats before you get to the good ones – and there’s plenty of those in the real world too! Hehe. Good luck!
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Thanks SR!
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I got a big hunky Piscean that’s has so slowly been getting out of that meditative pose. I’d love to do what Xena’s doing to him in my spazzy & unguarded moments.
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Yuhoooo…
I can feel the energy to be honest
It feels that i was sleeping till now and people are making me rush all over… and everywhere. not just at work… but also in my personal life
Just signed a web development contract with a company. Talks were going on since last december but nothing was working till now.. It seems suddenly gods have come to their mind and started believing in me
Feels so greatlife is gearing up for sure…
p.s. I am a Leo male
with moon and venus also in Leo… Mars in Scorpio
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