Comments on: Full Moonie II

By: nat

nat — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 09:18:22 +0000

Good work UP. Let the icy rage out in some other constructive way for yourself. It doesn’t matter if what you said yesterday sunk in for him or not – you can’t make him want to hear. It matters VERY MUCH that you said what it is for YOU. And you said it in a clear and direct way that did not harm you.

We can only EVER take responsibility for our own behaviour & responses to what happens to us, but when we do it can bring about massive changes to a situation. I think you just proved that to yourself???! Keep up the good work

By: unpredictable pisces

unpredictable pisces — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 23:53:18 +0000

hope all goes well for you and yours UPVXX

By: unpredictable pisces

unpredictable pisces — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 23:50:26 +0000

Nat, you are such a legend. this is good info. it resonates for me at least (and I bet others) and I also think backs up my approach to the Toro yesterday – I was in an icy rage actually but to him was direct, calm, concise, ruthless in my appraisal of his actions, unemotional…bla. whether or not any of it sunk in I don’t know, but i said it and thats all i can do at the moment.
thanks again

By: crabwoman

crabwoman — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 22:32:06 +0000

well I looked like both lol Mars has been right on my jupiter, which is exactly square my nodes, pluto opposing my sun and last year I ended up a fab career as a photographer to look after teenage angst, then attempted to throw myself at what I was doing before artistic awards and shizzit, to no avail, and have been trying to bang that drum from home since the beginning of the year, SO just tossed it all in the air with a huge WTF am I wasting five hours per day for 11 cents in four months, kind of a mars flip as he separated from my nodes and wore my flowy top on my morning walk lol so tonight I plan a huge middle east foodfest, eating with fingers and all, dont have a hat to match the above image tho

By: matthew-minerva

matthew-minerva — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 21:41:05 +0000

i swear all my taurean friends were going SPAZZ!
ITS BAD! i didnt realize the moons total effect untill i saw it on a grand scale!
it was like 20 of the Narnia Witch! hair looking like someone stuck their fingers in powerpoints!
zen
matt

By: weathergirl

weathergirl — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 15:42:41 +0000

I love Mary Oliver. Thanks for the contribution, Vee.

Best to your dad, UPV.

By: prowlncat

prowlncat — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 15:34:47 +0000

Wow this full moon really has put bugs up multiple peoples butts. Ex dramas. Clients with dramas (not to do with me but with other clients). Financial dramas. Generic merdefests all round. The evening was saved by the Virgo client neighbour dude – we sat around his place all night gassbagging, drinking too much coffee and I told him about my corset fetish and he told me about his fantasies of being a porn star. hehehe

By: Champagne Bearing Aquarian

Champagne Bearing Aquarian — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 13:32:47 +0000

That is such a fantastic way for things to turn out. Kudos to you Aqua-girl for being wise and graceful enough to let it happen. Proof that there is no one “right” way things are “supposed” to be – we always have a choice to bring a deeper insight to situations. (Though admittedly some people sadly just don’t prove themselves worthy of this understanding.)

I became friends with a girl my long-ago ex (who is now a dear friend) cheated on me with, and she’s recently come back into my life offering fabulous support and friendship. In fact, I am friends with almost everyone I’ve ever dated too. Perhaps it’s an Aqua thing?

By: Champagne Bearing Aquarian

Champagne Bearing Aquarian — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 13:25:51 +0000

Thinking of you and your Dad, U&PV. Strength.

By: aqua-girl

aqua-girl — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 12:46:09 +0000

absolutely, leogroover…..i was the ‘other’ woman he was attracted to whilst he was with her. nothing happened while he was with her but it was inappropriate in ways.

early in our relationship, at a low point – he went overseas with her without a word to me about it and my world fell apart over christmas to new year. he came back and nothing had happened ~ but the closure that needed to be for their relationship…..so we could progress in ours.

she and i had every reason to hate each other.

i needed some guidance months later and reached out. with gravity and grace, she was there for me and we have been firmly there for each other ever since. she has nothing to do with him (as the break-up and how it came about is still a sensitive issue for her) and vice versa but there’s no hard feelings.

they had issues of a very personal nature while together that put enormous strain on their relationship and funnily enough, it was me who was able to repay her kindness for allowing me into her life – by being the first to address this with her and come up trumps . oh, the sweet irony.

healing, indeed.