Hello & no postings until this evening Sydney time as I am doing Saturn-Girl style activity but do enjoy the Lunar Piscean atmosphere, without that nasty Mercury-Mars tension.
Although – do also admit that the Mercury-Mars vibe gets shit done – yes??? Fab for clarity.
Do browse through the back-archives of the site if you need an astro-hit – using the categories or the tags is bound to bring up something you’re interested in.
For A Quick Full Moon In Piscean Hit, I recommend;
Saturn Dreaming Of Being A Mercury
Pluto in Capricorn and The G.F.C
Astro-Baby: Your Moon, Your Mothering.
Tags: Carlos Estevez, Full Moon Capricorn, Full Moon in Pisces September 2009, Lunar Piscean, Mars, Mercury, Pisces, Saturn, Saturn Girl, Sydney astrology
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I love that I was bon on a Friday & always remind myself to do something kind for me when Friday comes around…this image is great in a Miro-esque but less random kinda way. I like it.
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Me too Starstrokes…. Friday the 13th in fact…
Friday always feels lighter in my world & not really do with the weekend around the corner the day just has a nice feeling in general.
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Thanks for the link to Carlos Estevez. I had a lovely time looking at his work. So beautiful.
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Yes !…thanks for turning me on to this Artist…..my first glimpse of his work….Luv it !
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hmmmm well I don’t what Venus has for my agenda but at the moment I feel completely fuqed off with someone who runs so hot and cold its making me feel as though I’m going through early emotional menopause. I pull out all the Libran – Venusian stops only to be told to go home when I’m slightly moody or (and heres the clincher methinks) I asked any questions. If I try to be affectionate in any way – mothering, sexual, nuturing, friendly, financially whatever – I get the ‘you did this one little thing wrong and ruined my ENTIRE evening’. I’m almost on the cusp and I can feel my scorpio alter backing up behind me like a crowd about to mince me through a subway door at peakhour……
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just behave like a man, and stop thinking about the person. as for familial insults – scorpios dont have pincers and a whip tail 4 nuth!
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Adding my two cents into the jar of infinite possibilities Bluelibra…
In my experience if someone runs hot and cold, that means half of the time they are in retreat, or holding some tightly bound defense pose emotionally…sometimes this evokes an equal an opposite reaction in the people around them to try to draw them out.
The motivation of the person asking the questions can come from honest concern or caring, and or frustration at what turned the formerly communicative person into marcel marso. Every now and then you get thrown a bone of hope. If this is the romantic hot and cold well hello and thank you Dr Freud, yes the bone is usually some form of physical intimacy. Which nicely sidetracks.
Sometimes asking a few questions has echoes for the person in retreat to something in their past where they were held to account for something and it just feels like the thumbscrews are being used. Which is often totally out of proportion to the here and now.
Which makes me wonder why they are, as Nat put it, transfering the power of a night turned wrong squarely at your door? Yes it does in some way set you up as being very powerful…I mean really with a word or deed you manage to smite the night? Sheez. Again I think Nat is onto it with the person being very insecure.
A few questions to maybe consider if any of this rings true to you.
Is this a person that in other areas of their life is able to express themselves clearly?
Is this there a pattern where outside forces hold them back?
I think being direct about how you feel gives them a starting point, or a reflective point on how to grow. I’m greek chorusing again with Nat here agreeing that assuming a whipping post role in a relationship, helps neither yourself or the other person.
Not sure if any of this resonates for you Bluelibra, just throwing it out there in case it does.
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bluelibra, I’m not sure exactly what is going on betw you and this other person, but after reading your post this is my take on it. When someone has to PICK AT the smallest thing and then blame another person for something not being how they wanted (eg. your small ‘mistake’ ruined my ENTIRE evening), this is a tell tale sign that they are VERY insecure within themselves and trying to control the outer world because they feel out of control about something inside themselves. That sort of behaviour says that they are projecting or transferring their own inner sh*te on to someone else (you, their parents, the government, their boss etc. etc.) instead of stepping up to take responsibility for their own feelings and doing something about that for themselves. It is classic lazy “I will blame someone else for how I feel” behaviour and a pattern that can be very very hard to break. Its a pattern that will not be broken if the person has no desire to look at their own behaviour and make some changes.
Think of it this way: when a secure enough person, who respects you (and themselves), has a request for you to not do something they did not like, they would raise that in a respectful ADULT way wouldn’t they? They might suggest trying things a bit differently next time or put the request to you more directly & openly. They would not address the issue by picking at little things, attacking you, putting you down or making you “wrong”.
If you cannot hold a mirror up to this person’s behaviour in some way and ask them to be more direct and open with you about how they feel (because that is how you operate), then I suggest you walk away… they may not be ready or prepared to address their own behaviour and you staying there being their whipping post will not achieve any progress or growth, for you or for them. It is also helpful to look at our own behaviour in these situations and ask ourselves what expectations we might be bringing to the relationship… we can sometimes think we are being perfect and loving but we are also loading the other person up with unrealistic demands…
I may be wide of the mark here bluelibra. All the best x
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ARGH I posted something that was meant to be after Nat’s comment because well I think she makes a hell of a lot of sense….and sans coffee it’s appeared first…soooooooooo if you see this please read Nat’s comment and then mine…’cos it may read in a clearer fashion…maybe.
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Relaxing during Moon in Pisces is always good – watching a movie if you want my advice (if you can’t get any erotic romance thing going on, which is better). Of course Neptunian substances will be calling but better if you can do the sensual pleasure by other means
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Is that why I feel like drinking the night away….
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Yep
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Thanks FF, I will be behaving myself this evening & keeping drinks to a minimum! Pisces rising…. of course
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Oh me too with the Fish rising. I’m jumping out of my skin today. Had a great day but so trying not to do the wine thing tonight (as I’m home alone) but feeling great. Want to go back to my dreams where i’ve been with my dream soulmate – feels so real and amazing. Must be all that 12th house Aqua stuff. But as someone (Sweatpea) says, alcohol punches holes in your aura and I don’t want to miss my dream boy.
Watched dvd “Boy in the Striped PJ’s” today – poignant fabulous movie. So glad I’ve heard friends Year 8 kids are analysing it – very powerful story.
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my house guest has nicely gone out for the evening, i’ve got a bottle of wine on the windowsill warming in the fading light, a stack of dvds to watch, the new yo la tengo and some moon in pisces (and pisces full moon) thinking to do. hooray for friday nights in the house!
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“clinck”
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sante to you to madame.
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there’s just something spesh about Fri nights – whether alone or in company – magical – must be Venus as per Mystic!
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Its the sabbath FF, in the hebrew tradition we invite the sabbath bride (shekinah)into the house at sunset. Making love on a friday night is considered a double mitzvah (blessing)…x have a great night
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I’m endeavouring to stay vincay free this evening too…..argh! am going to Verge Chai Night at syd uni – what a horrid substitute for vincay! eep
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Hey L_L stay with it, tonight will reveal so much, vincay or non. Don’t feel sad, * back rub* hugs x
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Thanks FF. oooh you have such warm hands & heart
Oh god i’m feeling all saucey minxish today!
hope there are revelations tonight….have had odd dreams but nought revealed…
Enjoy your evening xx
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OOh you too – yes i’m not bad at massage, my Leo boy demands it everynight! And he’s only 9. perhaps it’s his Virgo Asc – earthy needs
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Love it! Lucky boy. Wish I had been given massages back then… Might have calmed me down & stopped me from lying in bed praying like crazy that no one else in my family would die whilst also hoping I wouldn’t spontaneously combust in my sleep. (The joys of being a catholic schoolgirl addicted to Readers Digest Unexplained Mysteries books)
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Nice to see i”m in good company on this Picsecam wine fueled night. As MM said earlier in week VOW not to be drunk/needy/hysterical on Friday well I’m fighting hard on all fronts (even after drinks at work which are always highly embarrassing for me) and will vow to keep the faith.
Who’s with me?Like a full moon in pisces hand holding ritual crazy session.
Whats in store on this moony night? No Pisces in my chart but I can sure feel something.-
well i’m keeping my mischief in the house, working on the if a somewhat conflicted gem/pisces moon gets drunk/needy/hysterical in the house and no-one sees (and she doesn’t send any texts or emails or post anything too silly here), did it happen?
way less potential damage this way, and i get to watch the moon and the storm battle over the prime spot in my window view.
So I think that means I am with you.
However, there is definitely a storm brewing outside my window.-
actually, its not brewing, its passing over.
Jupiter has already made it through, the moon can’t be too far off.
Clear skies!
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I so hate being an astro cliche but I have spiralled this early evening into the abovementioned needy / hysterical having spent the day veering wildly between the two with a giant dollop of RRRRRAAAAAAAGGGGEEE (pms) thrown in.
Thank God (for me and certainly anyone else) that I am alone.
And after one drink I can see where this is heading….Blech.
I’m calling Friday off. I need a nap.
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Hope you’ve managed to chill and switch off Aqua Fey….
Yay for nana naps!
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yee hah! for jupiter no storms here in FNC NSW
Shell is lthat like if a tree falls in a forest does anyone know concept?-
yep, that what i was thinking.
or alternatively the butterfly flapping its wings and starting a cyclone.
The first obviously much better.
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Happened across a book people here have mentioned a time or two…’The Five Languages of Love’…had a nice glass of Sav Blanc read through the most of it and have just woken up from a little nap.lol A glass of wine usually does not send me to sleep.
Although it’s written primarily for couples, I think it has some transferable ideas for other relationships too. It’s given me a fair amount to think about in this ohh so transformative week.
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Dear Leonine Linrarian and Nat – Thank You Thank You Thank You. I shall retreat from this persons behaviour and focus on my own well-being. Venus after stepped out from a shell and I can’t see why my own inner Venus cant step back in. Once again Mystic, thanks for creating this realm of communication.
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