Hello all. Haven’t been here for ages.

Is the current astrological pattern in particular effecting girls? I’ve been working at a high school today and girls were fighting all over the place!

Kerry

I still don’t understand what people mean when they accuse someone (a woman) of being a “bitch”. To me it is a vague word and says more about the accuser (and their own insecurities?) than it does about the person they are calling a “bitch”. Be more specific about your complaint I say. For example: flithy cheating mole, greasy parasite, disrespectful oaf, loud-mouth space hogger, qi drainer, party pooper, sad sour misery guts, bombastic boundary transgressor, selfish ingrate…. you get my drift. At least the subject would get some insight and clarity about our displeasure.

That’s a lot to deal with and no wonder you feel emotionally drained. I say give all high maintenance types a wide berth until you have dealt with the more important matters at hand.

Apologies if this is not the case, but when this person asks about you, it’s not to gather ammunition or to suss out your vulnerable points is it? Disguised as caring? I have seen this and seen people kicked when they’re down.

Truly supportive people won’t be asking or expecting anything of you at a time like this. Best wishes go go.

Full Moon in Pisces? Still dreaming baby animals, must have a strong Diana:)
Maybe Diana is the ruler of Pegasus, it’s HER flying horse to shoot her bow & arrows from astride.
Jupiter my guardian is shining bright (soo far away), philosophy & higher learning always wins with me.
This must mean all good wishes to me for dropping both Sagg’s. All is possible, my Aqua Lillith has done me right, tout est possible.
Thanx x x

I am just trying to get my head clear. Life is being a bit rough with me at the moment sometimes the energy to patrol boundaries is hard to come by… but I know it will be worth investing that little extra.

The Caps conversations aren’t all about them, many questions are asked about me… mostly I am not too forthcoming or indepth with feelings because I feel hurt. Then they withhold info. Then things get awkward.

None of this should really matter as I have found out I have to go to the hospital to say goodbye to a friend. Their body is giving up after a stroke. Normally the cap is who I look to for support, but I am strongly considering not involving them. If they are going through a ‘not talking’ day, it will only compound things and I need to be focusing my energy on my last moment with someone else.

‘Cos I’m totally up for polite banal surface engagement with some people. Sometimes the time has passed on what has created a friendship…other times it’s well worth the work.

I see your present problem is different again. I think Uber’s advice as per usual, is spot on.

I’ve found for myself that repeat offenders respond well to similar treatment here. I’ll listen, to the point where it does seem to weave in on itself. Nicely point it out, that the conversation seems to be folding in on itself…soften it by empathising that I find if this happens for me, that getting an impartial outside party…aka counsellor to listen sometimes teasing it all out into action.