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		<title>By: Leonine Librarian</title>
		<link>http://mysticmedusa.com/2009/08/07/chrono-philia/comment-page-1/#comment-24881</link>
		<dc:creator>Leonine Librarian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2009 08:56:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks uber.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks uber.</p>
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		<title>By: toro mama</title>
		<link>http://mysticmedusa.com/2009/08/07/chrono-philia/comment-page-1/#comment-24784</link>
		<dc:creator>toro mama</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2009 12:31:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>TA - I&#039;ve been reading your stuff for nearly a year now on your old blog with all the beautiful artwork and your new one and here on mystic&#039;s blog. You are such an inspiration to me. And you do deserve to put yourself first. But you are so in the thick of it now with everything - can you take some time out to make your decision so have time to take many deep breaths in and out without getting a little voice asking for something or needing your attention.

I totally respect only you can know what is best for you and your family - but can you avoid make any binding or legal agreements now until you can get some headspace. Can you put some arrangements in place to get more of the support/time you need? 

My great aunt bought up 5 boys by herself in the 1940s/50s after her husband died soon after the birth of no 5. And she has outlived all the others of her generation and done the most amazing things (and all her sons did too when they grew up) - she is such an incredible strong positive woman. The kids used to go to her sister&#039;s family every school holidays so she could have a break. 

If you had more regular breaks maybe it would get easier??

And yes you might have less money than those guys but I am pretty sure your kids wouldn&#039;t trade what you can give them for all the money in the world. And I loved your paintings are they still online somewhere? The book site?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>TA &#8211; I&#8217;ve been reading your stuff for nearly a year now on your old blog with all the beautiful artwork and your new one and here on mystic&#8217;s blog. You are such an inspiration to me. And you do deserve to put yourself first. But you are so in the thick of it now with everything &#8211; can you take some time out to make your decision so have time to take many deep breaths in and out without getting a little voice asking for something or needing your attention.</p>
<p>I totally respect only you can know what is best for you and your family &#8211; but can you avoid make any binding or legal agreements now until you can get some headspace. Can you put some arrangements in place to get more of the support/time you need? </p>
<p>My great aunt bought up 5 boys by herself in the 1940s/50s after her husband died soon after the birth of no 5. And she has outlived all the others of her generation and done the most amazing things (and all her sons did too when they grew up) &#8211; she is such an incredible strong positive woman. The kids used to go to her sister&#8217;s family every school holidays so she could have a break. </p>
<p>If you had more regular breaks maybe it would get easier??</p>
<p>And yes you might have less money than those guys but I am pretty sure your kids wouldn&#8217;t trade what you can give them for all the money in the world. And I loved your paintings are they still online somewhere? The book site?</p>
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		<title>By: Über Virgo</title>
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		<dc:creator>Über Virgo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2009 09:57:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>ta, I sent you an email. Wondering if I used the right address.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ta, I sent you an email. Wondering if I used the right address.</p>
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		<title>By: Über Virgo</title>
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		<dc:creator>Über Virgo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2009 09:56:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Actually, I have a feeling they&#039;ll be back. He and the kids haven&#039;t  had to deal with each other for extended periods before. Let them tough it out. I&#039;m sure there&#039;s a lot you provide for them that he simply can&#039;t and they need both of you, so this might be a way to find a better balance. Please take care of you! xx

And Leonine Librarian, you&#039;re such a gentle, sensible soul.  xx to you too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Actually, I have a feeling they&#8217;ll be back. He and the kids haven&#8217;t  had to deal with each other for extended periods before. Let them tough it out. I&#8217;m sure there&#8217;s a lot you provide for them that he simply can&#8217;t and they need both of you, so this might be a way to find a better balance. Please take care of you! xx</p>
<p>And Leonine Librarian, you&#8217;re such a gentle, sensible soul.  xx to you too.</p>
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		<title>By: Baristagem</title>
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		<dc:creator>Baristagem</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2009 09:51:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lol, maybe too much caffeine is the explanation. I actually have no idea what was going on. I woke up suddenly both times &amp; thinking of Mars &amp; Saturn. Any thoughts?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lol, maybe too much caffeine is the explanation. I actually have no idea what was going on. I woke up suddenly both times &amp; thinking of Mars &amp; Saturn. Any thoughts?</p>
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		<title>By: davidl</title>
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		<dc:creator>davidl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2009 08:52:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>too much caffeine ? what were they doing ? was it like Clash of the Titans or WWW wrestling ?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>too much caffeine ? what were they doing ? was it like Clash of the Titans or WWW wrestling ?</p>
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		<title>By: Salacious Sagg</title>
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		<dc:creator>Salacious Sagg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2009 07:00:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>BTW you will always be a Magic Mama for your babies : &gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>BTW you will always be a Magic Mama for your babies : &gt;</p>
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		<title>By: Salacious Sagg</title>
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		<dc:creator>Salacious Sagg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2009 06:57:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey TA how old is your Dung Bug?  The reason I am asking is I assure you the kids will finally recognise what rats their dad&#039;s are. Sure for ages they go about in denial but once they spend enough time with their dad the penny will drop. The sad thing is the stupid dad&#039;s miss out big time. For in their old age, their coffers of gold will not keep their hearts warm!

Hang in there gorgeous girl. I hope you can get a nice massage to massage all that stress away? At times I have not been able to afford it but I have treated myself, as it literally boosts my batteries to go on!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey TA how old is your Dung Bug?  The reason I am asking is I assure you the kids will finally recognise what rats their dad&#8217;s are. Sure for ages they go about in denial but once they spend enough time with their dad the penny will drop. The sad thing is the stupid dad&#8217;s miss out big time. For in their old age, their coffers of gold will not keep their hearts warm!</p>
<p>Hang in there gorgeous girl. I hope you can get a nice massage to massage all that stress away? At times I have not been able to afford it but I have treated myself, as it literally boosts my batteries to go on!</p>
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		<title>By: taurean alchemist</title>
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		<dc:creator>taurean alchemist</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2009 06:18:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>thanks Uber... 

I&#039;ve made my decision and its heartbreaking but it IS the right thing to do.  Sometimes the only way to end a war is to surrender.  The past six years I&#039;ve been under siege, making do with what has been around me but never leaving the city, so to speak.  The children will be very well off with their father, and I still have the dung bug to care for.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thanks Uber&#8230; </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve made my decision and its heartbreaking but it IS the right thing to do.  Sometimes the only way to end a war is to surrender.  The past six years I&#8217;ve been under siege, making do with what has been around me but never leaving the city, so to speak.  The children will be very well off with their father, and I still have the dung bug to care for.</p>
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		<title>By: Über Virgo</title>
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		<dc:creator>Über Virgo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Aug 2009 12:49:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>PS The shrinking you&#039;re talking about is very Saturn Pluto, which I know you&#039;re doing currently, as am I. It&#039;s paring back to the basics in order to do groundwork or regroup, but it&#039;s not permanent. If you do the groundwork now, it will allow you to expand later on.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>PS The shrinking you&#8217;re talking about is very Saturn Pluto, which I know you&#8217;re doing currently, as am I. It&#8217;s paring back to the basics in order to do groundwork or regroup, but it&#8217;s not permanent. If you do the groundwork now, it will allow you to expand later on.</p>
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