as they say, you can’t change him – but you *can* change how you respond to / deal with him. whatever happens you’ll be ok – good luck SF

One of those guys had a venus/saturn square – I remember another astrologer telling me that would mean he would have a tendency to blame the women in his life for things – and boy was that true.

Interesting what attracts us to people – I remember reading some research yrs ago about how they did experiments and women who took the pill were more likely to be attracted to aggressive, bad boy types and then when they weren’t on the pill they were more attracted to calmer men who made good dads.

Hormones and planets – can’t escape them!

Mars with Uranus in hard aspect (square, conjunction, opposition, even quincunx) indicates unfaithfulness in MEN. For a woman, it would be Venus.

But Mars and Uranus together indicate restlessness and temper. Also, curiously clipped speech. It’s not a good pairing even with the softer aspects (trine) but marks you out from the crowd.

Ryan O’Neal had a parallel (contraparallel) pairing of Mars and Uranus in declinations, and was unfaithful and hot headed.

Mars, Saturn, and Uranus are not a good combination. A trine or sextile work out better, but I wouldn’t put Mars with either of the other two. In a trine or sextile, it may indicate the ability to perservere.

His Mars and Uranus are in parallel (contraparallel, technically….but the same influence, which is like a conjunction).

This indicates:

- temper problems….Mars and Uranus don’t sit well together, especially a conjunction or negative (square/semi-square, opposition) aspect. It makes him high-strung, individualistic, and hard to pin down. Also may make him explosive.

- infidelity in a male (Mars is the sex planet for a man, and Uranus is sudden change and inability to be shackled). The effect would be much better and moderate if there was a trine or sextile aspect (Paul McCartney comes to mind…)

His first name is “Charles” – the numerological influence of 22 in Chaldean numerology, and this indicates some tendency for unfaithfulness. See Prince Charles for comparison.

Additionally, his Venus is basically burned by the Sun (conjunction) or combust, and his Sun is made sensuous by Venus. That’s a weak pairing if you want faithfulness.

I definitely think you need to have your friends check out your guys before you commit to any. Find guys who are physical and working out that Mars somewhere other than on your personality, you know?