In an interview ages ago, the tres Scorpio Ms Julia Roberts declared that there was “one sign of the Zodiac” she would never date again. Maybe it was “sleep with” – I can’t find the original article anywhere online…But decisive. So, is there any sign you would never date again. Okay, never say never but as a general rule…From experience…
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No brainer – fell in love once with the loveliest, kindest, most gorgeous Libran man. He was The One…. until it came to decision making. Whether to see me or not, where to go out, what to do, what to wear, where to eat, what to eat, when to eat, what to think, how to feel…. aaaaarrrrrrgggggghhhhhhhh.
So many possibilities that I had to sadly leave him to them.
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…completely understand… plus the need to appear like it’s all ok and never really face the hard stuff… yikes
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totally Libran, most charming men ever but i would never go there again
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that was me anon, but there is another sassy…hmmm ill change my name
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oh sorry… also happy yo change mine!!
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Fell head over for a Kataka & it totally did my head in!
Um…. I heart kataka but please seriously never again
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No more Aqua men for this Libra unless there are some amazing things in his chart. After 6, I learned my lesson.
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Six aquarian men or you were aged six when you learned your lesson about them?
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LOL! I was a late bloomer so it was six Aquarian men.
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You deserve a medal
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No more Pisces. I can actually just barely be friends with them. I know, it’s awful, but I am a Cap and I’m hardcore into stability, saying what you mean, NOT being a drama queen, etc. I dated a Pisces and was very close friends with another Pisces one after another and both were so dramatic, so manipulative, full of excuses and such general undeniable wrecks that I don’t think I can go there ever again. I’m sorry to stereotype the sign, and I know there are good ones out there, but I definitely experienced the worst of what that sign had to offer.
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64 votes and NOT ONE of them for Capricorn. Since I am one, do you mind if I ask… Is the reason you didn’t vote Cap because:
A) Once you’ve had a Cap, you keep them and never look back; or
B) You’d never date one in the first place, so the ‘date again’ thing is void.
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b
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Fair enough – and I note, we’ve now hit 81 non-cap votes…
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I read that wrong lexi, thought it said Have never dated…just dont know ?
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I love caps, always fall for them, and probably will continue, so i’d say a)
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Is there a C) option Lexicorn?
You dated one, dumped him because he was a cheater and you never looked back?
Still I voted for Pisces because he caused me the most anguish of all but to justify there was also strong Leo in there, yadda,yadda,yadda…Said it all before and his chart is mostly squares and oppostions so no reflection on our lovelies here…My first love at 16 was a Pisces too. He cheated on me also so just think I’m done.
Like R. ONeal, second Pisces has an afflicted Mars. His sq. Neptune.
Which I could say the Cap. was someone I’d date again. Maybe…He did apologize four years later and my Cappy Moon got along with his Cappy Sun-Moon. The Pisces apologized three years later…funny how they come back…But the knife had just gone way, way too deep….Some things you just never truly recover from…
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A Capricorn CHEATED on you!?!? unthinkable. Sure he wasn’t lying about his age / birthday too??
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He was an incureable flirt Lexi…
Mars in Libra had something to do with it no doubt. Every women he came in contact with thought he was hitting on them…Of course I found this out later. But, he said he was in the business of making people feel good about themselves. He was a photographer and make up artist and rode a Harley. I read some interesting things on Eric Francis’ site about people who ride Harleys. And his was not street legal (noise wise). What this meant according to the article was a very “Marsey” type thing of “in your face” kinda stuff, somewhat sexually also…Don’t know if that’s true but was something to ponder.
After it was over it was not too long that while sitting at an outdoor cafe I heard a familiar sound. I peeked through the shrubs and could not believe, he already had a cute blonde on the back…
I gave a chuckle and asked the waitress for more cream…
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Oh OK. I can hear some low-Cap tendencies in there. And you know, every sign has got to have an ‘exception to the rule’ – meanwhile, 100 votes and still no Capricorn – should ‘our kind’ be proud or try a little harder to leave an impression??
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No, I think it must mean you’re doing good!! And really, with my Cap Moon I’m actually quite apprehensive to just jump into stuff. I take my relationships seriously. Maybe so, thats why alot of Caps don’t have a bad rap?
But if you’d like to leave a string of broken hearts behind….Maybe that could be fun for a whirl, eh?
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i just don’t think caps flirt that much? put themselves out there? they can be a bit scorpy in that regard, just hang out minding their own business. my 1st love + heartbreak was a cap, self-centred prat (ok we were 18 so still terra-forming personalities).. but Cool as most caps are to me. Caps have substance but they don’t put out the vibes as much as others, imho. i think no bad press is good in this case, lex!
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I live love LOVE caps. I’m trying to write a business case right now to prove to one that I’m a good relationship investment.
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That is SO Virgo to write a business case proving you are perfect relationship material… but the thing is, a Capricorn would SO respect that!
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I voted for Cap because my Capricorn ex would always ditch me to go to work. I’m talking VALENTINE’S DAY DITCH to go work. Never. Again. Caps are lovely people to be friends with, but dear god, they are literally not around in relationship.
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Cap person I was seeing often couldn’t make it due to work. Then, one time when he did, he feel asleep in the movie theatre and started to snore…Watched the movie alone….Fun
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I spent two years with a cap, voted cap. He wanted a robot lady. He wanted to be the boss of everything. He was a shrink with sooooo many issues, but projected them onto all the women who failed him, and also pushed me to the point where I had to leave, and therefore fulfill his prophesy and knowledge of women and how awful they are. Mysogonist to the max.
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Librans leading the pack eh? That’s curious considering it’s supposed to be the sign of partnership!
I’d have to say Cancer, as even though I am one, male crabs are dull as batshit and sooo conservative. At least the one I went out with was and he had a Scorpy moon – not even that lit a fire cracker under this dude. Talk about passionless. I would have been better off dating a vibrator.
This would be followed closely by Saggo men as they are far too energetic for my tastes, always running around Carpe Dieming all over the place, looking at you like you’re some kind of mutant if you need to, you know – sit still for five minutes? The one I dated, apart from being completely mental, was always breathlessly making ridiculous statements like “I’ll sleep when I’m dead!” and treating sex like some kind of freakin cardio workout session. Wouldn’t have surprised me if he pulled out one of those heart rate monitor thingies mid-you-know-what to see if he was at optimum fat burning capacity.
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Ha,ha…You are hilarious Prowlin’…
Ah yes, the Cancerian Man….Mine had Virgo Moon. In many ways an excellent husband and father…He is now dating another Aries. He’s been remarried twice since me. I wish him luck with the Aries gal. She’s Persian like him. He said he’s “stickin’ to his own kind”…lol….Think he forgot about the Aries part…
In honesty though, His Cancer Sun was opp. My Cap Moon and they say that is a huge marriage indicator….It WAS comfortable for the most part.
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To reiterate from a long ago post, my brother, a Libra, on his FOURTH marriage. Do love him to death, but his Moon in Sagg and so you can imagine according to what Prowlin’ said. I never dated a Sagg but from observations….MR. ENERGY…And temper….oh dear, do NOT get him started.
But I would not date him again..But then, I never did..he,he
Did see a Libra for a short stint but he was counterfieting money…lol
Never the less, just for our poll, only voted once (I don’t cheat
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I’ve got moon in Sag and not noted it to give me buckets of energy ya know Sweetpea … but I do have the loud mouth … eewwps … love of travel, plus am a lot more freedom loving and adventurous than your average Crab I guess. I always reckon a bit of Sag in the chart is fab as it lightens the personality as long as it’s balanced with other more grounded elements – but an OD of Sag and Oy Vey.
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As a Libra I have to say I didn’t like dating the men of my sign. They are so terribly diffuse. It doesn’t surprise me that they are on the avoid list.
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Prowlin, I’m with you on the Saggos…my second would be the Kataka Men, my ex husband was a Kataka with Toro Rising, so he was like nailed to the floorboards at home.
I do find the Sagg men frantic and oddly moody, it’s like one minute they are the funniest thing ever and the next they are brooding like you just annoyed the living crap out of them…always athletic but very straight in bed, so does not work for me…hee hee…
I think, despite burn marks, I’d still go out with a Scorp.
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Mine was moody too FA but that could’ve have been due to the prescription medication addiction! The dude was a walking pharmacy. Probably yet another Mars square Neptunian that I fell over after one too many lime caprioskas. Everything looks better with vodka. Thankfully I don’t drink anymore!! hehehe
I wouldn’t say no to a Scorp either. I was remembering recently that I did say no to a Scorp once and I don’t know why because he was absolutely lovely … not only very cute, great in the you-know-what (goes without saying), but also very kind, sweet and charming. I dumped him for a dumbass alcoholic Virgo son of a priest. Go figure!
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Oh Honey, can you not get the Scorp back – oooh, but that little (or big? hee hee ) stinger would be out by now…
AND wot a coinkidink, my Saggo Ex was a secret alcoholic – he picked it up in the Marines, so he did the clean-cut I’m an Officer in Whites bit quite well, and used to tell me I was a Renaissance Woman. Funny to bits that peeps suggested (as they did to me) that we could be invited to dinner simply for our humor…except he couldn’t hack that I DON’T drink a drop. And well, apparently he did buckets.
He was also super straight in Le Sac…good but way too clean if you know what I mean, and I reckon you do, being a little sassy minx hee hee
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Have you noticed that Sags like to gamble? I know it’s a cliche of the sign and Jupiter, but it’s uncanny …. dunno why but I have some kind of innate horror of gambling.
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don’t have any innate horror of other nefarious activities tho!
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I gather, Prowln hee hee… well, I think gambling mimics the Call of the Wild for them, no? And yes, they have amazing luck which to their credit they are actually quite generous with. IF they’re not too busy indulging their egos (lower Saggs).
But honestly, the only gamblers I know are all Pisceans..
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Could never do Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer ever again…I’m very thorough, the first 4 guys I flung with were Taureans, then I started screening…
* I had an 8th house fire sign on my wish list & this is what I got….til death do us part! -
While I’ve got a few Gemini friends I think I’d go nuts dating any of them…but then I don’t think they’d want to date me either. So I can’t say I wouldn’t ever date one again…as it’s never gotten that far.
Leos however well I married one and have plenty of male leo friends who I pretty much adore. If it’s ever felt like it would go further though I’ve just shied away….way too much work in a dating sense.
The only libran guy I dated I loved dating. I would of killed him within a month if I’d lived with him full time though…for aforementioned mulling over everything…from every angle …sometimes it was as though everything no matter how small had to be analysed against some triple bottom line to the power of 10 (ecological,social, financial, emotional,physical appearance, health, personal energy expenditure, impact on sex life, was it expected, was it a surprise)…perhaps because the sex and conversation was good in dating it was ok…as a permanent lifestyle choice even with my Mars in Libra…not so much. Small sample group though…maybe I should just research more.
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Mmmm, maybe I should be worried? I’m currently seeing a man with Sun, Venus, Mars, Uranus and Pluto in Libra… It hasn’t gone pear-shaped yet, but maybe they’ll get my vote sometime in the future?
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I think that what may drive one person to distraction could be just the thing for someone else…maybe there is a good reason you’re attracted to someone with that much libran…maybe he is vibing all or most of the good stuff…and the good libran stuff is pretty GOOD stuff.
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I find it amusing that there isn’t a clear winner like on all the other recent polls…
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was thinking the same thing Pk..the jury is still out
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I had to vote Virgo, because I have enough Virgo already in my chart plus three immediate family with Virgo suns and a Virgo dog (aka the phantom pisser who almost succeeded in giving me a golden shower from a terrace in the garden during the Neptunian weirding, but I digress).AND I can’t possibly date someone who is as precious or more precious than me.
Next choice is Saggo. Too aloof. Or Aries. Too full on
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aries too full on ? no way, chilled to the max baby..
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saggo – aloof??
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these virgins have no idea hey UP ?
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Aloof as in they act as if they’re doing you a favour by dating you, and you’re just a temporary diversion between their far more important grandiose deeds and travels.
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Maybe there’s a better adjective for it.
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Wankish?
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Geminis, although I am immensely attracted to them, I find are too manipulative and superficial.
Hooray for the Caps!
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Can I change my vote to Scorpio? No…wait, make that aqua male… Actually I’m never going near any of the fixed signs ever again. They’re so stubborn
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yeah hooray for Caps! I like them but can’t say i’ve ever dated one. One night stands don’t count i guess.
with 3 planets in Virgo + Circe (all in 8th house), i like all earth signs – especially Virgos
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They’re very good at the one night stand though…or the continuing one night stand…so maybe they should get some points in a good way for just being um good on multiple levels.
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by multiple levels I mean at the one nighter, the continuing one nighter…and once they do commit they really commit…oh and any other grey areas of relationships I didn’t mention…
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well, yes i had a continuing one night stand with a Cappy and boy was he good on multiple levels :0
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In my limited experience, having dated only one, they do create quite the lasting memory.
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I’ve had enough of Librans for the time being. Yes they do have some great stuff going on, gorgeous to look at, great to work along side of, after that it’s all hard.
LOL Sag’s. Never tried one. Might be like running a never ending marathon.
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As a scorp I wouldn’t date another one of my own kind, but as it was only once and it was pretty much an immediate realisation.. I voted Pisces. It took me about 6 of them to finally get it, that we are not so good together. The ones I met were either totally wet and clingy, or too slippery and non committal. All of them drank waaaay too much and some had substance problems too. Never again.
Us scorps have such a rep that I am surprised (and heartened) at these results. Fun quiz! -
Ive dated all signs i am apparently ’suited’ to, and frankly, they have all been total psycho paths. theyve all been commitment phobes, which treat me like shit. frankly, i just dont get it. Virgos, which apparently isnt good for me – strikes up as the most common.
Ive got taurus as rising, so that tends to stable my piscean nature a little bit…I would love to hear personal date guidlines from relationship experienced SCORPIOS, CANCERS, CAPRICORNS and Virgos…
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Ooh I’ll weigh in on this… For me, I would run a mile from someone who says things like ‘they all treat me like shit’ without realising that if there is a pattern, it takes both people to make it happen. To label all your partners psychopathic seems a bit um, blaming to me. It is never so one sided.
But only a very short while ago, I posted about how I would never date a pisces again, so clearly I am probably not the first one who should be replying. The capital letters and ‘what the hell do you want!?’ actually stirred in me what got to me about other piscean exes.. ‘What do you want me to be?’ Rather than ‘How can we do this together?’ Too fluid, not enough sense of self for me. -
Virgo and Pisces are a great combo from what I’ve observed. Pisces lightens up the Virgo, whilst Virgo helps Pisces get a bit of structure going on. But I’d have to agree with upbeat scorp that you have to have your own stuff sorted first before any other relationships can have a chance to work out. Perhaps the question you need to be asking is “what kind of person do I want to be in a relationship?” … you need to set your own principles and standards that are in tune with your own conscience, otherwise if you are constantly looking for “what to be” externally, you wind up losing your sense of identity and ultimately resenting the other person for it.
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hey that was me above btw
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Gemini. Never again. Went out with on in my youth and we broke up and got together again 13 times! Every time he broke up the grass was greener the other side. But then the greener side palled and back he came again. I should have told him to get stuffed. His mum eventually told my mum that she was glad I’d dumped him in the end (yes,I finally told him to sod off) because he would have made my life a misery. Yes, his mum! And he could never stick a job longer than a few months, they were always great until they went pear-shaped three months longer. Sorry, Geminis, but I’ve come across too many two-faced Gems to trust ‘em. Got a Leo now, 33 years, and he’s so romantic, loving and kind. Gimme Leos (well, this one anyway)any time.
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Looks like the air signs are neck and neck for worst date !
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Followed closely by the fire signs, with water in 3rd place and earth signs bringing up the rear (as they do).
It’s a battle of the elements.
Next we should run an astro roller derby, but we already know who’d win. The Virgos and Cancerians would be massacred while the fire signs and the Scorps would skate over our feeble carcasses.
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no offence but i think that a cancerean would be too clingy – a one night stand would NOT be the cancerean way!
my best friend recently got out of a relationship with her Venus in cancer boyfriend and i swear the ONLY reason she broke up with him was because this dude was totally clingy ahhhh!
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Clingy can be good, as long as they’re also worshipful and helpful around the house.
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Touche Uber. Grind that heel down, haha
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Yes Ma’am!
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My Cancerian brother is all the things one would warn people against…not clingy…just too much testosterone and little thinking involved. Sad really. He has good points they’re just well drowned in camo of a bogan boy man that has not grown up…yet. ( see deluded sister that lives in hope that some day…well)
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“a one night stand would NOT be the cancerean way!”
Ya wanna make a bet Matty?? LOL … won’t go into a crass “when I was a girl … ” rant but let’s just say I had a virile youth. But then I do have other contraindicators like Mars Aqua, Gem Asc and Sag Moon which tend to go for the good time, not the long time.
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what a shame nobody on the Allure shoot with Julia Roberts above noticed styling faux pas! it’s SUCH a beautiful image, and, despite those rings….. she radiates beauty!!
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Virgo… or any Earth sign for that matter… I can’t stand stick-in-the-mud types!!
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capricorn, I’m a gemini and there’s just no metaphysical sparks or heat whatsoever.
dullest relationship of my life.
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